CREATING THE LIFE THAT YOU WANT:

State as clearly as possible in a positive way what it is that you want to create in your life.

1.) Within the next (time frame) ______________________, I choose to _______________________________

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Be clear why you want this and how your life will be different once you achieve this goal.

2.) I believe the benefits of doing this will be ________________________________________________________________________________

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Understand what you have going for you to help you achieve this goal.

3.) Three things that I have going for me in terms of creating the kind of future that I want are _________________________________

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Understand the challenges that exist

4.) Three things that may keep me from creating the kind of future that I want are ______________________________________________

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Be especially aware of the negative self-talk that sabotages and undermines your attempts to succeed .

5.) The negative and destructive self-talk that I need to watch out for is ______________________________

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I will combat this negative self-talk by, _______________________________________________________________________________________

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6.) Be clear about what you need to achieve this goal in terms of skill, resources, support systems etc.

I need to learn the following skills in order to accomplish this goal___________________________________________

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I need to get these resources_________________________________________________________________________

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I need to develop these supports _______________________________________________________________________

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#7. List the 3-5 major actions that you need to take to start moving towards this goal.

I need to get started by doing these things__________________________________________________________________________________

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8.) I will take care of myself while working to create the kind of future I want by ___________

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9.) Stay focused on what you want to create, not on the difficulties you might be having.

I will keep myself focused on what I want to create, and the benefits this will bring me by.

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10.) Be easy on yourself! Have fun! Enjoy it! Enjoy Life!

I will remember to be easy on myself. Have fun! Enjoy it! I will work to enjoy life by doing these things. ______________________________________________________________

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