Attitude for gratitude positive affirmations

Present Tense Affirmations 
I have an attitude of gratitude 
My thoughts are focused on positivity and thankfulness
I am sincerely grateful and this attracts positivity into my life
I take time to be grateful for something as simple as a blue sky or the sound of laughter
I am grateful for my family
I am grateful for all my material possessions
I am thankful for simply being alive
My life is full of so many things to be grateful for
Each Morning I give thanks for another day of life
I am grateful for all the positive things that are still yet to come my way

Future Tense Affirmations 
I am developing an attitude of gratitude 
I will be thankful for each day of my life
I am beginning to feel a deep sense of gratitude for all the wonderful things in my life
I will strive to appreciate everything
I am transforming into someone who is always focused on positivity and gratitude
I am starting to feel more gratitude for the things I used to take for granted
Others have been noticing that I am much more positive and appreciative
Having an attitude of gratitude is starting to feel more natural and normal
My attitude of gratitude grows stronger with each passing day
I will always be thankful for whatever life brings my way

Natural Affirmations
An attitude of gratitude comes naturally to me
I just naturally have an attitude of gratitude
My mind is always effortlessly focused on positivity and thankfulness
Gratitude is something I just naturally feel all the time
Thankfulness, appreciation, and sincere gratitude are all important parts of who I am
I find it easy to maintain an attitude of gratitude even in difficult situations
I am the kind of person who just always appreciates whatever life brings my way
I find it easy to take time each day to take a moment and feel sincere gratitude
An attitude of gratitude is the key to manifesting a better life for myself
I love the feeling of being deeply grateful for something as simple as a hug from a friend

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Social phobia affirmations

Present Tense Affirmations 
I am relaxed in public 
I enjoy parties
I embrace social situations
I thrive in crowds
I am confident
I look forward to parties
I am outgoing and friendly
I have an inner calm in crowds
I am socially adept
I enjoy being social

Future Tense Affirmations 
I will have fun at parties 
I will enjoy talking with others
I will seek out social situations
I am becoming more comfortable in groups
I will relax in groups
I will enjoy meeting new people
I am becoming more confident around others
I will become more outgoing
I will thrive in crowds
I will stay calm around others

Natural Affirmations
My personality is outgoing
Others enjoy meeting me
Others invite me to parties often
Meeting new people is fun
Engaging with others comes naturally to me
Confidence is one of my traits
Attending parties is fun
Being around others is relaxing
Crowds are fun to be in
Social situations are fun

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Panic attack affirmations

Present Tense Affirmations 
I am calm 
I am able to let go of panic
I have a serene life
I am a relaxed person
I am in control
I am safe and secure
I breathe easily and naturally
I am able to mentally detach from panic attacks
I have confidence
I am free from panic attacks

Future Tense Affirmations 
I will eliminate panic attacks 
I will stay calm under pressure
I will stay in control
I will remind myself that I am safe
I will be okay
I will control my breathing
I will maintain focus and control
I am feeling more relaxed
I will focus on my breathing
I will overcome panic feelings

Natural Affirmations
Handling pressure is easy for me
Staying calm feels natural
Feeling safe is easy
Others see me as relaxed and calm
My life is calm
Taking deep breaths helps me relax
I can easily let go of a panic attack
Controlling my breathing comes naturally
Everything is okay in my life.

My breathing is controlled

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Loving yourself positive affirmations

Present Tense Affirmations 
I love myself unconditionally 
I am a good person who deserves to be happy
I take pride in who I am
I am happy just being me
I am totally comfortable being myself
I have limitless confidence in my abilities
I accept myself deeply and completely
I have accomplished great things
Others are inspired by my ability to be myself
I have confidence in my ability to do whatever I set my mind to

Future Tense Affirmations 
I am finding it easier to love and accept myself 
Each day I become more confident in who I am
I will take time to remember all my accomplishments
I will love myself unconditionally no matter what
I am beginning to see all the positive qualities and traits that I have
Others are starting to notice my self acceptance and improved confidence
I am discovering more wonderful things about myself with each passing day
I am beginning to truly love myself
Loving myself feels more natural and effortless
I will always accept myself unconditionally

Natural Affirmations
Loving myself is essential to my happiness
I deserve to go after my goals and do what makes me happy
I find it easy to recognize my positive qualities
Being happy with myself is a normal part of my every day life
I find it easy to be confident and comfortable with who I am
Accepting myself unconditionally gives me the power to succeed
I know I have the right to be happy and nothing can take that away from me
Loving myself and being happy with who I am comes naturally to me
I truly like myself and this helps others to accept me for who I am
I have a natural awareness of all the positive things in my life

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Think big powerful affirmations

Present Tense Affirmations 
I always think big 
I maximize success in all areas of my life
I aim high and push myself to the limit
I think big and go after my dreams
I dream huge and take huge action
I always take things to the next level and achieve massive success
I am someone who pushes limits and gets the most out of life
I pursue what I want in life with confidence and decisiveness
I am full of determination and because of that I always achieve my dreams
I always go after the highest possible level of success

Future Tense Affirmations 
Each day I think bigger and bigger about my life 
I get more out of life with each passing day
I am becoming someone that thinks big and takes decisive action
I am reaching higher and further each and every day
I am moving towards massive achievements
My hunger for big success is increasing
I am finding myself aiming higher and achieving more
I am turning into someone who never let’s up and is always driven
I am finding myself more intensely focused on achieving my dreams
I am becoming highly passionate about achieving my goals

Natural Affirmations
I naturally think big and aim high
I find it easy to stay motivated and achieve my dreams
I am always pushing success to the limit and getting the most out of my I am naturally driven to pursue big ideas and take big action
I am the kind of person who just never gives up
It’s normal for me to push limits and take things to the next level
I am naturally motivated to achieve my biggest dreams
I just think big and go after it, that’s how I live my life.
Being hungry for success is a normal part of my every day life
Staying focused on my goals is easy for me

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Present Tense Affirmations

I am constantly growing and developing

expect to succeed. I am powerfulI achieve whatever I put my mind to

I am a positive thinker I am always developing myself in every area of my life. I believe in myself deeply. I am constantly improving. I am focused on being the best I can be at all times

My awareness is always expanding and developing.

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Present Tense Affirmations

I am in love with my partner

I respect my partner deeply
I am able to be my true self around my partner
I communicate my wants and needs clearly
I always take into consideration the perspective of my partner
I am constantly striving to grow the love between my partner and myself
I am able to draw boundaries when needed
I go out of my way to support my partner
I am tuned in to the wants and needs of my partner

Future Tense Affirmations

I will develop a healthy relationship with my partner

I will be a wonderful spouse
I am starting to feel more and more in love
I will act with respect and care towards my partner
I am constantly developing and growing my relationship
Each day I feel closer to my partner
I am able to communicate clearly
I will always be honest and loving towards my partner
My relationship is improving each and every day
I will express my wants and needs clearly

Natural Affirmations

I deserve to have a healthy relationship

I can respectfully communicate my feelings
Having a healthy relationship is extremely important to me
I do everything possible to nurture the love I have for my partner
My partner respects and cherishes me
Honest communication is one of my natural strengths
Having a healthy and loving relationship is just a normal part of my life
Drawing boundaries and fostering respect is important
Listening to my partners feelings is very important to me
Building a healthy relationship is worthy of any and all effort.

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Tap into your personal power affirmations

Affirmations

Present Tense Affirmations 
I am directly tapped into my personal power 
I have full command of my personal power
I am in tune with my personal power and in full control of it
I am naturally able to command my personal power and I am successful because of this
I always act in the moment and get things done as they need doing
I am a natural action taker
I act on my desires immediately and without hesitation
I can achieve anything I set my mind to
I am motivated and driven and I always follow through on my goals and plans
I believe in myself 100% and I can achieve the lifestyle I desire

Future Tense Affirmations 
I am becoming more in touch with my personal power every single day 
I will take control of my personal power
I am finding myself more driven, ambitious and focused on my goals
I am turning into someone who is naturally motivated, ambitious and focused on creating success
I am becoming a natural action taker
I will always act on my desires and motivations
I will act in the moment, without hesitation, every single time
I am turning into a focused, productive, action orientated individual
I am starting to see success and positive improvement from taking control of my mind
I am starting to live my dream reality and moving towards it every single day

Natural Affirmations
My personal power comes naturally to me
I find it easy to tap into my personal power
Being in full command of my mind and body comes naturally and effortlessly
Being successful is my natural rite
Success is something I just achieve naturally through following my desires and taking action
Taking action upon my desires is my natural way of life
My personal power to act, live in the moment and follow my dreams is my greatest asset
People see me as someone who takes action and works all out to achieve their dreams
People look up to me as a driven, ambitious and successful person
Taking action as soon as I have the instinct to is the reason for my success.

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How do affirmations work

How do Affirmations work?
An Affirmation is a short positive declaration or statement which you can keep with you,
repeat to yourself and your Angels mentally, and use on a practical and
emotional level right throughout each day.
All of these affirmations contain only positive declarations
of good intention designed to help you
with loving and respecting yourself and other people,
give you self-confidence and optimism,
and to help you through each day with a positive and caring attitude
towards everyone and everything around you.
and especially towards yourself!
At the end of each day, being able to tell yourself and your Angels “I did it!” will give you
a sense of achievement, which, in turn, will help you gain peace of mind and self-love.

How to choose your Daily Affirmation Card
Take a few moments to focus on the cards below, then close your eyes for a few seconds
and ask your Angels to help you to choose the correct card to help you have a good day,
with a positive mental attitude.
Remember, when selecting the card, start your statement with –
“From now on, I choose to …..”
then click on your chosen card to complete the affirmation
the Angels have guided you to today.

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10 ways to prevent mania and hypo mania

Bipolar disorder is one of the most difficult illnesses to treat because by addressing the depression part of the illness, you can inadvertently trigger mania or hypomania. Even in Bipolar II, where the hypomania is less destabilizing than the often-psychotic manic episodes of Bipolar I, persons often experience from a debilitating depression that can’t be lifted by mood stabilizers and antipsychotics. Antidepressants, though, can cause a person with bipolar to cycle between hypomania and

1. Practice Good Sleep Hygiene
Developing good sleep habits is by far the most potent tool for preventing mania and hypomania. There are a handful of studies documenting that sleep deprivation is associated with mania and hypomania. By going to bed at 10 every night and sleeping a good eight or nine hours, we have the power to stop rapid cycling and to reverse mania or hypomania. In a study published in Biological Psychiatry a rapid-cycling patient was asked to remain on bed rest in the dark for 14 hours each night (gradually reduced to 10 hours). Times of sleeping and waking were recorded with sleep logs, polygraphic recordings, and computer-based event recordings. His sleep and mood stabilized when he adhered to a regimen of long nightly periods of enforced bed rest in the dark. The abstract’s conclusion: “Fostered sleep and stabilizing its timing by scheduling regular nightly periods of enforced bed rest in the dark may help to prevent mania and rapid cycling in bipolar patients.”

2. Limit Your Screen Time
CNN did a story a few years ago on iPads (or LCD screens) and sleep. Journalist John D. Sutter asked Phyllis Zee, MD, a neuroscience professor at Northwestern and director of the school’s Center for Sleep & Circadian Biology, if our gadgets can disturb sleep patterns Dr. Zee said

Good sleep hygiene means you go to bed at the same time every night, ideally before 10:30 p.m. — not one night 2 a.m. and another night 7 p.m.; you sleep at least eight hours a night; and you wake at the same time in the morning. Since many folks with bipolar disorder have sleep disorders, a nighttime routine is often needed. For example, I shut down my computer at 8 p.m. and try not to check my emails or messages on my phone. Reading a disconcerting email at 9 p.m. will keep me up all night. It takes me a good two hours to calm down, so I get out the lavender oil around 8:30 p.m., pull out a real book (not an iBook), and begin to tell my body it needs to seriously chill out.

Potentially, yes, if you’re using [the iPad or a laptop] close to bedtime … that light can be sufficiently stimulating to the brain to make it more awake and delay your ability to sleep. And I think more importantly, it could also be sufficient to affect your circadian rhythm. This is the clock in your brain that determines when you sleep and when you wake up.

I absolutely know that to be true, because for awhile, I was reading iBooks for a half-hour before bed and staying awake until 2 a.m. My concern with LCD screens isn’t limited to bedtime. I know from people in my depression community that persons with bipolar disorder have to be careful with LCD screens at all times, as they can make the highly sensitive person hypomanic if the person doesn’t take a break from them. For me and for many fragile persons with bipolar, looking into an LCD screen for too long is like keeping your light therapy sunbox on all day. I made the mistake of firing up that baby from 9 p.m. to midnight right after I got it, and I did not sleep one iota the next day, and felt hypomanic all day long. Keep in mind that not only is the light stimulating, but so is all of the messages and tagging and poking — especially if you have as many social media handles as I do.

3. Avoid Certain People and Places
Most of us have a few people in our lives that appear as though they’ve downed three shots of espresso every time we see them. They are usually great fun and make us laugh. However, the hyperactivity isn’t what you need if you haven’t slept well in a few weeks and are trying to calm down your body and mind. Same goes with places. I don’t dare step foot inside the mall, for example, between Halloween and New Year’s. There is just too much stuff being forced in front of my face. I also hate Toys-R-Us. I still have nightmares about the time my husband pressed three dozen Tickle Me Elmos and the entire shelf began to shake.

4. Pay Attention to Your Body and Breathe Deeply
Before attending the mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) program modeled after the one developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center, I did not pay attention to my body’s cues preceding a hypomanic episode. In fact, it was usually another person who would point out the embarrassing truth — like the time my editor wrote a letter to my doctor after I started publishing eight blogs a day thinking my traffic would go up. Now, though, when my heart races and I feel as though I have consumed eight cups of coffee, I know this is my opportunity to reverse my symptoms by doing lots of deep breathing exercises.

Of all the automatic functions of the body — cardiovascular, digestive, hormonal, glandular, immune — only the breath can be easily controlled voluntarily, explain Richard P. Brown, MD, and Patricia L. Gerbarg, MD.

5. Eliminate Caffeine
A good caffeine rush mimics hypomania. You feel more alive, more alert, like you could actually contribute something of worth to the world. That’s all fine and dandy except when you are teetering on the hypomanic edge. Caffeine can provide the ever-so-subtle push to the other side, especially if you aren’t sleeping well, which is when most people most crave caffeine. Stephen Cherniske, MS, calls caffeine “America’s number one drug” in his book Caffeine Blues because of the withdrawal our body goes through three hours after we’ve drank a cup of coffee or a Diet Coke. Persons with bipolar are even more sensitive to amphetamine-like substances that raise dopamine levels, so the safest way to prevent hypomania is to eliminate the stuff altogether.

6. Exercise
My best workouts have been when I’m either on the verge of becoming hypomanic or when I am ticked off. My usual 10-minute mile goes down to an eight. I start passing people along my route, at the Naval Academy, feeling like Lynda Carter in her Wonder Woman getup. And my swim interval is consistent with the people who swam across the Chesapeake Bay in under two hours. The truth is I have averted many hypomanic episodes by working out until I collapse or at least become tired, which can take a few hours. Two years ago, the only way I was able to sleep was by swimming more than 300 laps a day. There are people for whom vigorous exercise triggers mania, but most experts report on the benefits of exercise for bipolar disorder.

7. Watch Your Sweets
There is a reason why ice cream, Swedish Fish, and animal crackers are comfort food for the bipolar person. The rush of insulin generated by those foods will calm those carbohydrate-craving brain pathways for a bit, until a crash in blood sugar has the person binging again on sweets. It’s a vicious cycle, one that can keep a bipolar person cycling indefinitely.

8. Be Careful With the Opposite Sex
I am all for good, healthy friendships between men and women. If you’re not bipolar. Consider me a prude, but I know how difficult it can be to be consistent with good boundaries if you are even the tiniest bit hypomanic. You sincerely didn’t mean for something you sent in an email to sound flirtatious — you were just being playful, like you are with your girlfriends. However, when you do get a reaction from a person of the opposite sex, something in the least bit flattering, that communication can ignite a rush that sends a signal throughout your entire body that you want more of the feel-good hormone it just experienced — dopamine, essentially. It’s even riskier if you have a history of substance abuse and bipolar — because your body will compromise any moral agreements you have signed off on prior to that email in order to get that damn rush again. If you’re not careful, this dangerous game will trigger a full blown manic episode. I have had the best intentions with 85-year-old men, and still, somehow, found myself in trouble. So for the time being, I’m sticking to female friendships.

9. Use a Shopping List
One of the most common manic behaviors is uncontrollable spending or shopping. Therefore, it is sometimes helpful for persons with bipolar disorder to make out a list beforehand of the items you absolutely need to buy — be it a grocery list, a Home Depot run, or a mission to get a your daughter’s friend a birthday gift. That way you won’t end up with 20 different kinds of paint swatches for the kitchen and living room you’ve decided to paint while you were at the store.

10. Allow Time to Decompress
This one is probably the second most important for me to prevent mania. I would say meditate, but that word produces too much expectation and pressure for me right now. Decompressing means after you finish something like a blog post or after you’ve forced yourself to be social for a few hours at a party that you didn’t want to attend, you allow yourselves 15 to 30 minutes to look at the ceiling fan in your bedroom and think about just that: the ceiling fan.

The case has been made that persons with bipolar disorder are creative and therefore need more chill time than the average person. Our brains are operating at a faster pace and more intensely than our non-bipolar friends for the periods of time where we must appear normal. So it is absolutely imperative that we allow some time where nothing is required — where we can drool, or lie in the grass, or doodle, or collapse in front of the front door. Although it seems as though these hours are unproductive, this activity will rebuild the gray matter of our brains and safeguard us from a manic episode.

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