Benefits of Meditation

Meditation helps us on many levels, from simple relaxation to freedom from suffering and full liberation of heart and mind. It allows us to:

  • defuse stress and experience greater calm
  • explore the mind-body relationship
  • connect to our feelings
  • expand our sense of who we are, beyond our fears and self-judgment
  • find genuine happiness
  • discover inner resources that can change our everyday lives
  • awaken our capacity for insight and wisdom
  • transform our worldview from one of isolation and confusion to one of connection, clarity and compassion
  • broaden our perspective and deepen our courage, based on seeing things just as they are.
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What Is Meditation? Discovering the present moment.

TRAINING THE MIND

Put most simply, meditation is a way to train the mind. Most of the time, our minds are wandering — we’re thinking about the future, dwelling on the past, worrying, fantasizing, fretting or daydreaming. Meditation brings us back to the present moment, and gives us the tools we need to be less stressed, calmer and kinder to ourselves and others.

“Meditation is a training of our attention,” Ms. Brach said. “It allows us to step out of distracted thought, and helps us arrive in the present moment in a balanced and clear way.”

MINDFULNESS

There are lots of different types of meditation. Most religions have contemplative traditions, and there are plenty of secular ways to meditate, too. But in recent years, mindfulness meditation has become increasingly popular.

Basic mindfulness meditation is the practice of paying attention to the present moment with an accepting, nonjudgmental disposition. The goal isn’t to stop thinking, or to empty the mind. Rather, the point is to pay close attention to your physical sensations, thoughts and emotions in order to see them more clearly, without making so many assumptions, or making up stories.

It’s a deceptively simple exercise — just be right here, right now, without daydreaming. But with practice it can yield profound results, giving us greater control of our actions, and making room for more kindness and equanimity, even in difficult situations. With time, mindfulness meditation can even help us better understand what causes us stress, and what we can do to relieve it.

Though mindfulness meditation was inspired by Buddhist practices, today it is available as a wholly secular practice that emphasizes stress reduction, the cultivation of focus and the development of tranquility.

“There’s a misconception that mindfulness is religious,” said Mr. Smith. “What we have to explain is that it’s a stress reduction technique and a way to get yourself stronger mentally. It’s a self-care practice.”

There’s a large and growing body of research identifying the measurable effects of mindfulness on the body and brain, and it is catching on in professional settings including education, sports, business and even the military.

MINDFULNESS VS. MEDITATION

Though the words are sometimes used interchangeably, it’s useful to draw a distinction between mindfulness and meditation.

Mindfulness is a quality of being — the experience of being open and aware in the present moment, without reflexive judgment, automatic criticism or mind wandering.

Mindfulness meditation is the practice of actually being present in the moment, which in turn trains us to become more mindful throughout the day, particularly during difficult situations.

As Ms. Brach puts it: “Mindfulness is your awareness of what’s going on in the present moment without any judgment. Meditation is the training of attention which cultivates that mindfulness.”

Mindfulness meditation isn’t the only way to meditate. Transcendental Meditation, which aims to promote a state of relaxed awareness through the recitation of a mantra, is also popular these days. But in this guide, we’re focused on mindfulness, which is increasingly popular and easy to learn.

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TECHNIQUES TO AID STRESS MANAGEMENT

Stress management involves a lot of strategies and techniques that it would take more than just this article to discuss them all. However, there is perhaps nothing more popular than relaxation, or the soothing and clearing of mind and physical distractions in order to improve focus and weed out negative feelings and thoughts.

Several stress management coaches say that relaxation techniques are probably the most effective of all, because people can easily adjust to them, that is, if they’re serious in trying to reduce their stress levels. In addition, stress management relaxation techniques are also easier to perform and relatively less costly that enrolling in a stress management class. They can also be performed at one’s own pace, time and location.

However, experts recommend that before anyone attempts at any relaxation technique, he or she should make sure that it doesn’t interfere or clash with any kind of stress relieving medication he or she is taking. Since a lot of drugs already function as calmers, the physiological effects of relaxation techniques might contradict the existing treatment and leave you at a greater loss and in a much greater level of stress.

Stress is not something that is to be taken lightly. If left untreated, it could lead to physical ailments, like heart conditions, ulcers, hypertension and other disorders. Thus, while it is still manageable, you should employ stress management relaxation techniques and nip the problem at the bud.

The most common among the stress management techniques is meditation. You will be asked to go to a quiet room where there are no distractions and exercise regular breathing patterns. Meditation is a mental exercise aimed at gaining control over your attention and weeding out any kind of distraction, in order for you to choose what to focus on, instead of being subject to the unpredictable turn of environmental factors.

Most people find it difficult to concentrate at first, but, once you get the hang of it, you could find yourself in a meditative state for more than an hour without even noticing it. People who have succeeded in achieving this calm meditative state have said that they feel refreshed after the session.

There is no single way to find out which stress management relaxation technique will work best for your particular situation and need. Thus, it is inevitable that you will go through a trial-and-error phase before you start.

Relaxation techniques, like meditation, as well as other strategies, such as autogenic training, yoga and progressive relaxation, will not stand when taken on their own. They must be done in conjunction with other methods in order for you to reap the maximum benefits of stress reduction strategies.

Stress is something you can fight. If you just employ the right techniques, you will be able to reduce them significantly and walk through life on a more positive note. If you find that anything bothers you, don’t lash out and scream just yet. Have the discipline to take a step back and assess the situation first before you make any move. You will find that even a one-second delay will do wonders.

Christine P. Gray

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MANAGING STRESS AT THE WORKPLACE

Perhaps one of the highest sources of stress among adults is the workplace. It is where they spend nearly half of their waking lives. While spending a lot of time at the office is not necessarily destructive for all, the fact that most jobs involve repetition, tense environments and various kinds of people and personalities is often reason enough for some to feel as if work is bearing down on them heavily.

A lot of people, especially the ones that earn the highest salaries, complain that their jobs are the ones that are giving them the highest amounts of stress. While those who belong to the rank and file seem to be the most busy of all workplace levels, because they are the ones who are usually tasked to perform the more menial duties, it is the executives and the other higher-ups who are actually more prone to workplace stress.

This is because aside from having to make huge decisions that affect the entire office, executives hold responsibility for everyone and are the ones who are made most accountable for any victory and glitch or mistake. Thus, the pressure is bigger on them, as opposed to the rank and file who merely follow orders.

More and more offices nowadays place importance on taking care of their employees. This is because a happy employee spells greater productivity. In order for workers to do better at their jobs, bosses should always seek to feed their morale. This is often done via yearly office sports events, parties and stress management and self-improvement seminars.

Some of the more popular stress management seminars offices send their employees to are the Franklin Covey seminars, like What Matters Most and Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. While these seminars do not really tackle work matters directly, they help staff respond better to any job that is given to them.

If stress management seminars are not being offered at your workplace, you can always manage your stress by yourself. Taking a short walk around the office block or simply getting yourself a cup of coffee and chatting up with colleagues during break time will help jumpstart your dwindling mood and set you up for another few hours of desk tasks. A change of scenery, even if it’s just for a few minutes, will do you good.

Even if you don’t leave your work desk, you will find that simply trying to clear your head of distractions and the work at hand for around five minutes will do wonders to your mood for the day. Simple meditation techniques like closing your eyes and breathing deeply can already do the trick. If silence is not your cup of tea, you can also try the various stress busting games available on the Internet to keep you amused for a while. Anything to get your mind off your stressor.

At the workplace, the most effective way to manage stress is not to lash out at it and throw a fit. It will only aggravate the problem. Instead, approach the situation calmly. Once you do so, the better you will be able to deal with it and, eventually, eliminate it.

Christine P. Gray is a recognized authority on stress management.

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Sleep Positive Affirmations

Present Tense Affirmations
I sleep deeply
I fall asleep easily
I am a good sleeper
I am in control of my sleeping patterns
I am refreshed and energized every day
I take time to relax before going to bed
I go to sleep and wake up at the same time every day
I am disciplined with my sleep schedule
I always take time to wind down at the end of the day
I keep a regular sleeping routine

 

Future Tense Affirmations
I will sleep deeply
Sleeping restfully is becoming easier
Sleeping right will improve my health and energy
I am finding it easier to relax before bed
I always rest quietly and calmly before trying to fall asleep
I am transforming into a natural sleeper
I will go to bed and wake up at the same times each day
I will create a sleeping plan and stick to it
I will wake up feeling well rested each morning
I will develop healthy sleeping habits

 

Natural Affirmations
I can sleep whenever I choose
Feeling rejuvenated each morning is normal for me
Falling asleep is easy
Sleeping is the most natural thing in the world
Sleeping deeply is normal for me
I naturally release my stress and worries at the end of each day
Eating right and exercising helps me to sleep well
Taking the time to sleep right will improve my life
Relaxing quietly before bed will help me to sleep
I always take the necessary steps to ensure a great sleep
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