I am at the Center of PeaceI affirm the following:

The outer world does not touch me. I am in charge of my own being. I guard my inner world, for it is there that I create. I do whatever I need to do to keep my inner world peaceful. My inner peace is essential for my health and well-being. I go within and find that space where all is quiet and serene. I may see it as a peaceful, deep, quiet pool surrounded by green grass and tall, silent trees. I may feel it as white, billowy clouds upon which to lie and be caressed. I may hear it as flowing, delightful music soothing my senses.

No matter how I choose to experience my inner space, I find peace. At this center of peace, I am. I am the pureness and stillness of the center of my creative process. In peace, I create. In peace, I live and move and experience life. Because I keep myself centered in inner peace, I have peace in my outer world. Although others may have discord and chaos, it does not touch me, for I declare peace for myself. Although there may be madness all around me, I am calm and peaceful. The Universe is one of great order and peacefulness, and I reflect this in my every moment of life. The stars and the planets do not need to be worried or fearful in order to maintain their heavenly orbits. Nor does chaotic thinking contribute to my peaceful existence in life. I choose to express peacefulness, for I am peace. 

And so it is.

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A Powerful 5-Minute Meditation to Open Your Heart

Have you thought about starting a meditation practice? I began meditatingmany years ago using a mantra. This can be an Indian Sanskrit word like om or hu, or a soothing word such as love or peace

You may use a phrase such as I Am Love or All Is Well. Or it can be as simple and powerful as doing mirror work to improve your self-esteem and well-being. 

All is Well In My World — Louise Hay #quote #inspiration #affirmation

If you want to learn more about mirror work, check out my 21-Day course on mirror work that I did with my dear friend Robert Holden, Ph.D. Mirror work is so powerful because self-love is one of the most healing gifts you can give yourself.

The Start of Something New and Healing

Before I learned how to meditate daily, I was so uptight and frightened at the time. And every time I meditated I would get a headache. 

This lasted for three weeks. As my body and mind began to relax, perhaps for the first time in my life, the headaches went away.

I have been meditating ever since, and I have attended many classes over the years. They each offer a slightly different method of meditation. All methods have benefits, although they may not be right for you.

Many people try to start a daily meditation practice, but they never get started because they think that there are rules to follow or they worry they are not doing it right. 

I want to share with you 8 simple steps so you can practice your own 5-minute meditation daily.

A 5-Minute Meditation to Open Your Heart

Breathe in. Breathe out.

Breathe in. Breathe out.

Breathe in and breathe out and just let go of all that stuff that is stuck inside you.

This is a special day and we don’t want to carry any old stuff with us.

Put one hand on your heart and one hand on your belly. And as you breathe quietly, notice how comforting that feels. Be aware that you can do this anytime and anywhere and take care of yourself.

You can make yourself feel better with simple gestures and your own breathe. How it calms you down. It lets yesterday go. It gives you a feeling of safety. You are here for yourself. And as you release yesterday and even this moment, you allow your full attention to come into this day, this hour, this time. Turn your full attention to this wonderful, wonderful day.

Let your heart open and make room for all the good of the Universe to come in.

All is well.

Meditation is one of the best gifts you can give to your body. It loves and supports you every day, and it feels good to give it something in return.

Like anything else in life, find the method of meditation that works best for you. You can start with my Morning Meditation on Hay House’s new Meditation Podcast.

And if you are interested in doing mirror work for your daily meditation practice, I encourage you to try the 21-Day course on mirror work that I created along with my dear friend, and Success Intelligence coach, Robert Holden, Ph.D.

Whatever method you adopt, you may choose to change methods over the years. And I am sure you will.

Remember, meditation is merely a way of you getting in touch with your own inner guidance. While we are always connected with this guidance as we go about our day, it is easier for us to consciously connect when we sit quietly and listen.

Let’s affirm: I am divinely guided at all times.

I Am Divinely Guided At All Times — Louise Hay #quote #inspiration #affirmation
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An Exercise To Love And Approve Of Yourself

Now is the time to take your list of things that are wrong with you and turn them into positive affirmations. Or you can list all the changes you want to make and have and do. Then select three from this list and turn them into positive affirmations.

Just suppose your negative list was something like this:

My life is a mess.

I should lose weight.

Nobody loves me.

I want to move.

I hate my job.

I should get organized.

I don’t do enough.

I’m not good enough.

You can then turn them around to something like this:

I am willing to release the pattern in me that created these conditions.

I am in the process of positive changes.

I have a happy, slender body.

I experience love wherever I go.

I have the perfect living space.

I now create a wonderful new job.

I am now very well organized.

I appreciate all that I do.

I love and approve of myself.

I trust the process of life to bring me my highest good.

I deserve the best, and I accept it now.

Out of this group of affirmations will come all the things you want to change on your list. Loving and approving of yourself, creating a space of safety, and trusting and deserving and accepting will enable your body weight to normalize.

They will create organization in your mind, create loving relationships in your life, and attract a new job and a new place to live. It is miraculous the way a tomato plant grows. It is miraculous the way we can demonstrate our desires.

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An Exercise To Love And Approve Of Yourself

Now is the time to take your list of things that are wrong with you and turn them into positive affirmations. Or you can list all the changes you want to make and have and do. Then select three from this list and turn them into positive affirmations.

Just suppose your negative list was something like this:

My life is a mess.

I should lose weight.

Nobody loves me.

I want to move.

I hate my job.

I should get organized.

I don’t do enough.

I’m not good enough.

You can then turn them around to something like this:

I am willing to release the pattern in me that created these conditions.

I am in the process of positive changes.

I have a happy, slender body.

I experience love wherever I go.

I have the perfect living space.

I now create a wonderful new job.

I am now very well organized.

I appreciate all that I do.

I love and approve of myself.

I trust the process of life to bring me my highest good.

I deserve the best, and I accept it now.

Out of this group of affirmations will come all the things you want to change on your list. Loving and approving of yourself, creating a space of safety, and trusting and deserving and accepting will enable your body weight to normalize.

They will create organization in your mind, create loving relationships in your life, and attract a new job and a new place to live. It is miraculous the way a tomato plant grows. It is miraculous the way we can demonstrate our desires.

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Learn about ADHD

Learn about the symptoms of ADHD and what to do if you’re concerned that your child might have this disorder.

Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is one of the most common neurobehavioral disorders of childhood. It is usually first diagnosed in childhood and often lasts into adulthood.

Signs and Symptoms

It is normal for children to have trouble focusing and behaving at one time or another. However, children with ADHD do not just grow out of these behaviors. The symptoms continue, can be severe, and can cause difficulty at school, at home, or with friends.

A child with ADHD might:

  • have a hard time paying attention
  • daydream a lot
  • not seem to listen
  • be easily distracted from schoolwork or play
  • forget things
  • be in constant motion or unable to stay seated
  • squirm or fidget
  • talk too much
  • not be able to play quietly
  • act and speak without thinking
  • have trouble taking turns
  • interrupt others

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american sign language interpreting icon Learn about symptoms of ADHD, how ADHD is diagnosed, and treatment recommendations including behavior therapy, medication, and school support.

Diagnosis of ADHD

Deciding if a child has ADHD is a process with several steps. There is no single test to diagnose ADHD, and many other problems, like anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and certain types of learning disabilities, can have similar symptoms. One step of the process involves having a medical exam, including hearing and vision tests, to rule out other problems with symptoms like ADHD. Another part of the process may include a checklist for rating ADHD symptoms and taking a history of the child from parents, teachers, and sometimes, the child.

Treatment for ADHD

ADHD can be successfully managed. Treatment options for ADHD include:

  • Behavior therapy, including training for parents
  • Medications
  • School accommodations and interventions

In most cases, ADHD is best treated with a combination of behavior therapy and medication. For preschool-aged children (4-5 years of age) with ADHD, behavior therapy, particularly training for parents, is recommended as the first line of treatment. What works best can depend on the child and family. Good treatment plans will include close monitoring, follow-ups, and making changes, if needed, along the way.

Get Help!

If you or your doctor has concerns about ADHD, you can take your child to a specialist such as a child psychologist or developmental pediatrician, or you can contact your local early intervention agency (for children under 3) or public school (for children 3 and older).

To find help in your area, look for the closest Parent Center.external icon

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) funds the National Resource Center on ADHDexternal icon: A Program of CHADD – Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. Their web site has links to information for people with ADHD and their families. The National Resource Center on ADHD operates a call center (1-866-200-8098) with trained staff to answer questions about ADHD.

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Presentation and prevalence of PTSD in a bipolar disorder population: A STEP-BD examination

Abstract

Background

Co-occurring psychiatric diagnoses have a negative impact on quality of life and change the presentation and prognosis of bipolar disorder (BD). To date, comorbidity research on patients with BD has primarily focused on co-occurring anxiety disorders and trauma history; only recently has there been a specific focus on co-occurring PTSD and BD. Although rates of trauma and PTSD are higher in those with bipolar disorder than in the general population, little is known about differences across bipolar subtypes.

Methods

Using the NIMH STEP-BD dataset (N=3158), this study evaluated whether there were baseline differences in the prevalence of PTSD between participants with bipolar disorder I (BDI) and bipolar disorder II (BDII), using the MINI and the Davidson Trauma Scale. Differences in PTSD symptom clusters between patients with BDI and BDII were also evaluated.

Results

A significantly greater proportion of participants with BDI had co-occurring PTSD at time of study entry (Χ2(1)=12.6; p<.001). BDI and BDII subgroups did not significantly differ in re-experiencing, avoidance, or arousal symptoms.

Limitations

The analysis may suggest a correlational relationship between PTSD and BD, not a causal one. Further, it is possible this population seeks treatment more often than individuals with PTSD alone. Finally, due to the episodic nature of BD and symptom overlap between the two disorders, misdiagnosis is possible.

Conclusions

PTSD may be more prevalent in patients with BDI. However, the symptom presentation of PTSD appears similar across BD subtypes. Individuals should be thoroughly assessed for co-occurring diagnoses in an effort to provide appropriate treatment.

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Course of bipolar history and early good trauma

Statistically significant findings in both studies for patients with bipolar illness with early childhood traumas (compared with those without) included: a greater number of subsequent manic or depressive episodes, faster cycling pattern, more suicide attempts, and an increased number of additional psychiatric and medical disorders, including a higher incidence of alcohol or substance abuse. Figure 1illustrates findings in those with and without a history of physical abuse, although a similar range of poorer outcomes was found for sexual abuse.

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Figure 1Patients with bipolar disease and history of physical abuse in childhoodShow full captionView Large ImageDownload Hi-res imageWe were also able to assess a subset of 373 patients prospectively rated by clinicians during naturalistic treatment.3 These data confirmed the findings based on retrospective self-reports and indicated that those with childhood adversity had a greater amount of time depressed, more days of mood cycling within a 24-h period, and less time well than those without early trauma. Interestingly, the abused group also reported a greater incidence of negative life stressors before the onset of both the first episode of illness and the most recent affective episode, suggesting that early traumatic experiences predispose to an increased exposure to and accumulation of other negative stressful life events into adulthood.3 4The nature of the association between childhood abuse and a more adverse course of bipolar illness deserves further clinical and theoretical attention.4 Whilst disruptive or provocative behaviours in children (signifying already present early symptoms) could be associated with the elicitation of physical or sexual abuse,3 it is far more likely that the long-lasting behavioural and neurobiological consequences of early traumatic life-events (as seen in animal studies of early maternal deprivation5) have a more direct effect on early illness onset and a more adverse course of bipolar illness.The patients with childhood adversities had a significantly longer delay (an average of 13 years) from bipolar illness onset until they were first treated with drugs for mania or depression than the patients without early abuse, in whom the delay averaged 8 years (figure 2).3 Thus the very individuals who most need early and effective therapeutic intervention, given the current evidence of their relatively poor prognosis, were precisely the patients who had the longest duration of untreated bipolar illness. This long lag before treatment with psychotropic drugs might also contribute to the increased incidence of alcohol and substance abuse in these youngsters, in part as an attempt at self-medication. These data converge with those of Wilens and colleagues,6 namely that those with adolescent onset bipolar illness are at particularly high risk for developing alcohol and other substance abuse disorders. PTSD can also be a risk factor for developing alcohol and drug abuse.Figure thumbnail gr2Figure 2Age of onset and delay to treatmentShow full captionView Large ImageDownload Hi-res imageAlong with the rising awareness of the substantial incidence of childhood physical and sexual abuse in the USA and other North American countries,7c there is increasing recognition that bipolar disorder often starts in childhood or adolescence. Results from adults (average age about 40 years) with bipolar disorder in two large networks8 9 indicate that childhood onset (before the age of 13) was common and represented 15–28% of patients with bipolar disorder. Together, childhood and adolescent onsets (before age 19 years) accounted for 50–66% of patients with bipolar disorder.8 9 Furthermore, other data suggest the increasing incidence and a decreased age of onset in bipolar disorder occurs via both a cohort (year of birth) and an anticipation (generational) effect.10 Most distressingly, we have found that the lag between onset of bipolar illness and first treatment is significantly longer in youngsters than adults, as also reported by Kessler and colleagues.11The paediatric and general medical community should have a heightened awareness of the possibility that bipolar disorder can occur before age 13 years and may not only be associated with a greater genetic vulnerability (ie, a family history of bipolar illness and substance abuse), but also with environmental stressors. Even in the youngest children, extreme irritability, affective lability (including brief periods of elation), decreased need for sleep, and the severity of impairment might begin to separate youngsters with bipolar disorder from those with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder.12 13 Later distinguishing characteristics might also include suicidal or homicidal thoughts; delusions; hallucinations; and precocious sexual interests and acts.14 15 Careful differentiation of the two disorders is important, because the first line of therapy differs markedly. Stimulant medications are the treatment of choice for attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, whilst mood stabilisers or atypical antipsychotics have the greatest effectiveness for childhood-onset bipolar disorder. In the bipolar group, treatment of comorbid attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder should be undertaken only after the primary manic-depressive symptoms have been controlled, as outlined by Kowatch and colleagues.15The outpatients in our study3 and those studied by Kessler and colleagues11 report that they were experiencing the most extreme delays in receiving an appropriate diagnosis and treatment when their bipolar symptoms started during childhood or adolescence. Further, those with PTSD1 and childhood onsets of bipolar disorder were disproportionately represented by those with a history of physical or sexual abuse. Starting treatment in a more timely manner, and paying greater attention to the possible contributing role of early traumatic events, might help ameliorate the adverse course of bipolar disorder and may have an additional benefit of helping prevent the development of secondary psychopathology and substance abuse.We declare that we have no conflict of interest.
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Say affirmations

— SAY YOUR AFFIRMATIONS —

We believe that positive affirmations are an amazing tool which can transform your life beyond all recognition. They are so simple that anyone can use them, even a child, they are easy to learn how to use (there isn’t even really a best way to use them), and even if you don’t know what that are yet, you could be using them within 5 minutes, feeling positive, warm, and happy inside too!

Affirmation is very useful for Life Success, Money Mastery, Weight Loss, Personal Growth, Confidence, Social Skills, Health, Brain Training, Dreaming, Metaphysical, Creativity, Business, Professions, Sports, Extreme Sports, Poker, Scuba Diving, Fitness and Bodybuilding, Martial Arts, Learning Languages, Learning Musical Instruments, Phobia Elimination, Addictions, Relationships, Success with Women, Success with Men, Sexual Enhancement, etc.

What is affirmation and why it is so powerful?
Affirmation is simply a process of thinking, listening, saying or writing a statement to yourself or other people repeatedly.
For example, when you wake up every morning, you may affirm by saying aloud “Today is a great day!” It will have great impact to the rest of your day. Trust me!

Before I explain to you the power of affirmation, I think it’s important that you understand the power of belief.
How many times have you heard people saying “if you believe you can, you can”?
Perhaps one of the great truths in life is that your belief creates your reality. In other words, your reality is generally a reflection of the beliefs of your subconscious mind. That’s why if you believe you can, you can.

By the way, what is a belief?
A belief is simply a thought that is accepted by your subconscious mind.
Actually not all thoughts are turned into realities. Only thoughts that are believed by the subconscious mind are turned into realities.
The reason why belief turns into reality is because of the Universal and Natural Law of Attraction.

Now, after reading this guide you will know everything you need to know about affirmations, mainly about how to use them and experience results from them to influence your life for the better.

Most people want to dive straight in, and that is actually totally fine, affirmations are not rocket science, and this simple guide will just show you a couple of methods you can use, and we promise you, this will only take 3 minutes to read, so you can be using them straight away and making changes in your mind and in your life TODAY!

The Most Simple Way To Use Positive Affirmations
Ultimately you will find your own style, way to say them, timing etc, but here is a really simple way to start.

Stand tall, relax your shoulders and stand with good posture

take a confident standing positon.
Have your affirmations infront of you.
Say them one by one, in a slow, confident tone of voice – go down your affirmations list like you mean it, like you believe it, and as if it is actually real or already happened.
Speaking slowly and confidently is important. Confident speakers take their time, they don’t rush their words, they pronounce each one properly and speak with meaning.
Optionally you can stand at a mirror and look at yourself as you talk. You might find you feel awkward, but with practice this will be normal to you. Standing at a mirror shows you your posture and your confidence so you can ensure you are doing them properly – adjust your voice tone and posture as needed to always stand positively, and look yourself in the eye.

That’s it, that is really all you need – see, positive affirmations aren’t rocket science, get started, put in the time and you will see results!

Add a Little Structure
Getting a little deeper, it is good to add a little structure, and CONSISTENCY.

Consistency is actually key, you need to repeat them day in, day out, so having a real structure, a daily routine will really help. Here is a standard routine for you to try, you can adapt it as needed, but it is a great place to start.

Say your affirmations 2x a day.
Start in the morning, as soon as you can after waking up. This ensures you have a positive start to the day – that the first thing you start thinking about are your goals and ambitious, and of course, that you are thinking positive thoughts!

Say your second set as close as you can before going to bed. This ensures that you have positive thoughts in your mind as you go to sleep, you are thinking about your goals and these will seep into your subconscious mind and solidify as you sleep.
Say them multiple times. It is up to you, but we recommend either 5 minute sessions (so just 10 minutes a day total), or alternatively, saying your whole set of affirmations 10x each, in a slow, confident voice – whatever suits you really, don’t take too long, 10-15 minutes is probably too much and they might seem like a chore after some time, 5 minutes really is enough for permanent, lasting change.
Again, that’s it, a little structure is good, try to stick to it – if you really do stick to this structure for 2 weeks then you will see a real difference in yourself! Then it won’t be like a structure you are trying to stick to at all… it will be something you want to do because you will have seen the powerful changes that positive affirmations can produce.

Some Extra Tips
So you’re still hungry for information? Good ?? Use these extra tips to make sure that you get the most from your positive affirmations practice!

Start with a focus. Don’t pick too many subjects at once.
Be consistent. Repeat them daily.
Make a commitment to do them for 30 days, no matter what. Think long term, and don’t give up.
Monitor your mood first. Before you start your daily session, just take 30 seconds to “look inside” yourself, see how you feel, see how your emotions are, do you already feel positive, negative, a little tired.. just take note. Then, say your affirmations, slowly, take your time, and then do a “mood check” again. See how you feel, see how positive you now feel, see how you feel differently about yourself. This can be a great way to gain confidence in your affirmations early on.

Before you even see the life changing results you really want, this simple experiment should show you how they can instantly lift your mood and change how you are feeling in an instant and inspire you to keep going so that you really do get to see the bigger and lasting changes you really want!
That’s it.. lots of people go looking for that magic formula to self improvement, looking for that powerful, complicated hidden technique.. it really doesn’t need to be like that – positive affirmations are for real, they can have a really powerful cumulative effect, and they can make real, lasting, dramatic changes to your life – to how you think, to how you act, to how you live your life!

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Words that heal book conscious subconscious

Conscious mind

I am the greatest.

I am the greaatest

I am the greatest subconscious mind
I’m afraid your not
In fact your a real loser
You can’t do anything right…..

The pattern is all too clear. Because your subconscious beliefs beliefs portray you as sonmmeone who cant get it together, your affirmations fall on deaf ears. Here is another example

Conscious mind
I deserve to be prosperous 
I deserve to be prosperous
I deserve to be prosperous Subconscious mind

Money is the root of all evil
money will corrupt you
you cant hold onto any money…..

What makes this process so insidious is that you may not even be. aware that your subconscious mind is sabatoging your efforts

Book loise hay WORDS THAT HEAL….

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Louise hay using cbt

Using Cognitive Behaviorial Therapy (CBT)

Now that you have been medicinally and pharmacologically rewiring your body, you might as well do the same with your brain and your behavior. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can help you start to identify the thought patterns in your brain, the “what if” and “I could, but I’d rather not” thought patterns.

Exposure therapy can help stop the pattern in which you avoid more and more things in the world. This is a procedure where you use imagery and with a tremendous amount of support start to imagine past traumatic events and conceive present circumstances that remind you of them. With support, you’ll learn to desensitize your brain and body.4

It’s important, at this stage of your treatment, to tell yourself that you are a brave survivor for having come so far and that you want, paradoxically, to face new situations that might be scary and out of your comfort zone.

Holding two thought patterns that are seemingly opposite concepts (i.e., paradox) is the key to healing trauma. For example, “I love myself just the way I am” is a phrase that can be coupled with its seeming opposite, “I want to change.”

Often people who have a history of trauma and abuse have difficulty holding paradox and are prone to black-and-white thinking. So, you might say, “I’m a survivor, I’ve come this far, this is what I learned to do to feel safe.”

However, if the way you’ve learned to feel safe is by limiting your life to only one or two friends, you’ll feel less anxiety at first, but in the long run you’ll socially starve. Limiting happiness and freedom because you are panic-stricken means you are still shackled to your trauma.

That’s all right. You can love yourself where you are and want more.

How do you do that?

Dialetical behavioral therapy (DBT) helps you train your mind to handle seemingly opposite thoughts and get rid of the black-and-white thinking that escalates panic and limits your life. Dialectical behavioral therapy for many is the treatment of choice for PTSD and panic disorder.

This kind of cognitive behavioral therapy is based on Tibetan Buddhism and mindfulness. It helps you learn how to regulate panic, fear, sadness, anger, shame, and guilt. You may also want to consider hypnotherapyEMDR (stands for “eye movement desensitization and reprocessing”), and other therapies that help people alter their mind-body networks for trauma.

Other Mind-Body Medicines for Panic and PTSD

In addition to 5-HTPpassion flowerlemon balmrhodiola, and ashwagandha, you may want to consider also going to a psychopharmacologist if your panic gets out of control, for temporary medication support. But warning—try to avoid Xanax, Valium, Klonopin, and other benzodiazepines. Yes, they may help in the short term, but if you find that you’re using them for a very long term to curb anxiety and panic, you may find out, as I’ve said, that you end up getting two problems instead of one.

In addition to PTSD, you might find out you have an addiction, and then you’ll end up having to go to rehab to get off the Xanax, Valium, or Klo-nopin. Not easy.

Traditional Chinese medicine can be helpful to treat brain and body anxiety, especially after panic. Try these:

  • If you tend to get hot/cold sweats—zizyphi spinosae
  • If you tend to get shortness of breath and panic—lumbricus
  • If your blood pressure tends to be too high or you get chest symptoms—uncariae
  • If you have problems falling asleep—magnetium
  • If you have stomach distress and panic—os draconis and concha ostrea
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