free affirmations Emotional Intelligence

Present Tense Affirmations

I am aware of my emotions
I am alert to the feelings of those around me
I pick up on mood changes in myself and in others
I can reason with my emotions
My emotions are under control
I manage my feelings
Understanding emotions comes easily to me
I regulate the emotions of my peers
I respond appropriately to my emotions
I accurately interpret the emotions of others

Future Tense Affirmations

I will focus more on my feelings
I will acknowledge my emotions
I will react to the emotions of those around me
I am becoming confident in my emotional perception
I will intelligently evaluate others’ sentiments
I will be seen as emotionally aware
My emotions will be manageable
My ability to get along with others will improve
I will asses the emotions of my peers
I will be able to build stronger relationships with others

Natural Affirmations

I am naturally attentive to emotions
Emotional intelligence comes second-nature to me
I am tuned-in to the feelings of others
I simply manage my emotions
I just naturally know my emotional boundaries
I instinctively read my peers’ emotions
Others see me as emotionally aware
I am tuned-in to my emotional well-being
I have full confidence in my emotional judgment
Emotions are easy to dissect

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free affirmations Emotional health

Present Tense Affirmations

I am happy with life
I am resistant to damaging influence
I am contempt with my life
I enjoy whatever life throws at me
I am able to build strong relationships
I recover from unsettling setbacks
I am easygoing
I handle stressful situations with poise
I am open to guidance from my peers
I am in control of my emotions

Future Tense Affirmations

I will be more emotionally stable
I will look on the bright side of things
I will be happy with what I have
I am becoming more emotionally healthy
I will be able to maintain healthy relationships
I will feel good about myself
I will see myself in a better light
I will appreciate life for all it’s worth
I will be more open to change
I will live life to the fullest

Natural Affirmations

I am naturally happy
I have high levels of confidence
I trust my abilities to adapt to change
Others see me as emotionally steady
My self-esteem is high
I am naturally laid-back
I can recover from stress
Change is easy to adjust to
I am self-disciplined
I appreciate all that life has to offer

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Complimentary Therapies

Complementary therapies are a diverse range of health-related treatments which are not part of mainstream medical care. Generally speaking they are thought to increase well-being, aid relaxation and promote good mental health in all. They are also known as alternative, natural, non-conventional and holistic and can also be known as medicine, e.g complementary medicine.
•Rethink Mental Illness believes that complementary therapies can be beneficial to people experiencing mental health problems when used in addition to medical treatment.
•The effectiveness of complementary therapies is not well researched.
•There is evidence that St Johns Wort can be effective in treating depression.
•The National Institute of Health and Clinical Excellence (NICE) has recommended the use of mindfulness based CBT (meditation) for depression.
•We look at a small selection of complementary therapies which are popular for the treatment of mental health problems but there are many more available.

These pages are created by Rethink Mental Illness’ Advice and Information Service in accordance with the Information Standard. Last reviewed in January 2013. Next review January 2015.

Why use complementary therapy for mental illness?

It is widely thought that complementary therapies can provide a sense of relaxation and increased well being which can contribute positively to a person’s mental health.

Furthermore, many complementary therapies involve a more holistic approach to treating people which means to treat the whole person and consider physical, psychological and spiritual needs rather than focussing on the symptoms of the illness. Many people with mental illness find this beneficial and Rethink Mental Illness supports a holistic approach to treating patients.

We will look at some of the most popular and established complementary therapies, in alphabetical order, and consider their usefulness for some mental illness. However, please note that this is not an exhaustive list and there may be other therapies available which work for you.

TYPES

Acupuncture

Acupuncture is part of what is often referred to as Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM). Acupuncturists believe that illness occurs when the body’s “qi”, or “vital energy”, cannot flow freely. By inserting ultra-fine sterile needles into specific acupuncture points, an acupuncturist seeks to re-establish the free flow of “qi” to restore balance and trigger the body’s natural healing response

A review was carried out into the use of acupuncture to treat depression. Two of the trials reviewed found that acupuncture could provide an added benefit to medication, when compared to medication alone. Overall, there was not enough evidence for the review to recommend acupuncture as a treatment for depression.

A review was also carried out into the use of acupuncture for people with schizophrenia. Some of the studies did suggest that acupuncture combined with antipsychotic medication may be more effective than antipsychotics alone. However, the research reviewed was uncertain so there was not enough evidence for the review to recommend acupuncture for people with schizophrenia.

Aromatherapy

Aromatherapy is the use of aromatic (pleasant-smelling) essential oils which are extracted from plants such as flowers, leaves, roots or bark. It is thought that each oil has a different therapeutic property which can be used to improve health and well being. Certain oils are historically linked to symptom relief for a wide variety of mental and emotional symptoms such as depression, anxiety and insomnia. Aromatherapy oils are absorbed through massages, bathing or direct inhalation.

A small study looked at a group of people with anxiety and/or depression who received massages with oil that contained essential oils associated with symptoms such as anxiety and depression. This group was compared with another group of people with anxiety and/or depression who received massages with oil that did not contain these essential oils. The results suggested that the group that received the essential oils showed more improvement in their anxiety and/or depression symptoms than the other group.

There is very little research into the effects that aromatherapy can have on conditions such as schizophrenia.

Homeopathy

Homeopathy is based on the theory that an illness can be treated by using tiny amounts of a substance which causes similar symptoms to it. Homeopathy is also based on the principles of treating the whole person and a consultation would involve a thorough assessment of a person’s lifestyle, personality and physical health. A treatment is then selected based on all the information gathered and is tailored for the individual

A recent NHS review of evidence concluded there was still not enough evidence to recommend the use in depression.

Massage

Massage is a form of structured and pressurised touch, or kneading, of the body which is generally used to relax and to relieve muscle pain. There are many different types of massage ranging from “Swedish massage” which involves light strokes aiming to relax the muscles in order to relieve tension to “Shiatsu” which, like acupuncture, believes that putting pressure on certain points will help to balance a person’s energy. Often massage is combined with aromatherapy which is thought to enhance the well being effects of the treatment.

Spiritual/Energy Healing

People who practice energy healing believe that in addition to a physical body we also have an energy body. This is made up of individual chakras which are responsible for different aspects of our emotional and physical well being. When there is emotional or physical disharmony in a person these chakras become blocked or unbalanced. It is believed the practitioner acts as a channel and harnesses universal healing energy to unblock and balance the chakras. They do this by placing their hands above the body at certain positions throughout a treatment. One of the most well known forms of energy healing in England is Reiki.

Anecdotally many people report a strong sense of relaxation during the treatment and a feeling of well being afterwards. A study found that people who received Reiki appeared to have reduced symptoms of depression and stress after 6 weekly sessions compared a group of people that did not had placebo sessions. This difference was also present a year later.

There is little research into the effects of energy healing for people with mental illness.

Western Herbal medicine

This the use of plant extracts to treat medical problems including mental illness. The most well known herbal medicine for treating mental health problems is St. John’s Wort (hypericum). A review of studies that looked at St John’s Wort as a treatment for depression found that St John’s Wort is just as effective as anti-depressants and has fewer side effects.

However, the active ingredient in St. Johns Wort can be harmful for some people if combined with the substance tyramine which is found in some foods such as:
•extracts of meat and yeast (e.g. Oxo, Marmite)
•broad bean pods, smoked or pickled fish
•hung poultry or game
•some cheeses
•some red wines
•some beers.

Also, St John’s Wort can interact with other prescribed medicines such as the oral contraceptive pill. You should check with your doctor before taking St John’s Wort.

Reviews have been carried out to look at whether other herbal medicines, could be useful in treating anxiety. Valerian has been found to be as effective as diazepam, but only one small study could be reviewed. More research is needed to be able to say if this is an effective and safe treatment option for anxiety disorders. Kava may be an effective treatment for anxiety but again, more research is needed and its long-term safety needs to be studied.

Meditation and Mindfulness based CBT (MCBT)

There are different types of meditation however most share the practice of sitting quietly and focusing your mind on either your breath, a mantra (a repeated phrase) or an object. When thoughts arise the person is encouraged to gently note them without judgement and let them drift away whilst the attention is then returned to the breath or object. It is claimed that with practice people can learn to quieten a busy and stressful mind and gain a stronger connection to the present moment without unwanted thoughts intruding. This practice is widely known as “mindfulness” or “mindfulness meditation” and can be practiced at home on your own or in a group.

More recently the practice has been combined with some techniques of cognitive behavioural therapy to treat depression and this has come to be known as mindfulness based CBT (MCBT). Based on the principle that recurring depression is associated with the return of negative thinking, feeling and behaving, participants learn to recognize these ‘automatic pilot’ modes, step out of them and respond in healthier ways.

It is now recommended by the National Institute of Clinical Excellence (NICE) as a treatment option for depression . MBCT should be an 8-week group program with each session lasting 2 hours, and four follow-up sessions in the year after the end of therapy.

There has been little research into the use of meditation in other mental illnesses.

Yoga is form of meditative and physical exercise which has its routes in India as a spiritual practice. Movements and postures are performed slowly and coordinated with an emphasis on controlling the breath. There are different types of yoga which often differ on how much emphasis is placed on aspects such as the physical exercises or the breathing.

Yoga practitioners claim that yoga can enhance all aspects of a person’s well being included mental health by reducing stress and improving mood.

TRYING

How can I try complementary therapy?

Most complementary therapies are delivered by practitioners operating privately. Before you make an appointment with a private therapist it is recommended you read the section on choosing a therapist here.

Private therapists can often be expensive, ranging from £35 – £60 for an average hourly session. If you are looking for free or low cost options, sometimes the NHS provides complementary therapies in certain areas, particularly if the therapy is recommended by NICE (the National Institute of Health and Clinical Excellence), so it is worth checking with your GP first or contacting your local Patient Advice and Liaison Service (PALS) who deal with enquiries and concerns from member of the public about local NHS services.

Local mental health charities or alternative therapy centers may provide free or low cost complementary therapies. Search http://www.mind.org.uk or explore what is available in your local area.

THERAPIES

Choosing a private complementary therapist

Unlike mainstream medical practitioners, complementary therapists do not have to register with a statutory body to practice.

However, in 2008 The Complementary and Natural Healthcare Council (CNHC) was established, with support from the Department of Health, as the main regulatory body for a selection of complementary therapies which include massage, aromatherapy, shiatsu and yoga as well as others not mentioned in this section.

The CNHC works with professional bodies to regulate the sector by:
•setting nationally recognised qualification standards to practice
•having a voluntary register of practitioners that have those standards
•having an independent disciplinary procedure to deal with complaints.

To register with the CNHC practitioners must also undergo criminal and disciplinary record checks and provide a character reference. Once a person is registered they are able to use the CNHC kite mark on all their publicity material.

Many individual therapies also have professional bodies which represent the interests of the practitioners in their field and also make recommendations for qualification standards needed to practice. They also hold registers for practitioners who have recognised qualifications. See below for contact details of these.

As the CNHC is relatively new and membership is voluntary not all qualified practitioners will be registered at the moment. If your chosen therapist is not a member of the CNHC, you could at least make sure they are members of their professional body and have recognised qualifications.

In Britain, acupuncture has its own self-regulatory body with a register of members who have been trained to meet industry agreed standards. Their details are in the Useful Contacts section below.

Other points to consider when choosing a complementary therapist include:
•Check the cost of treatment beforehand to make sure you are being fairly charged. You may have to shop around a bit.
•Ask about the qualifications, membership of professional bodies and how long they have been practising.
•Always make sure the practitioner has appropriate insurance. Membership criteria for CHNC and other professional bodies normally include a practitioner being appropriately insured.
•Talk it over with your doctor or nurse and ask for their advice, especially if you are going to have a therapy which involves taking pills or medicines.
•Choose the complementary therapy that suits your individual needs. Other people may be able to give you an idea of what worked for them.
•Don’t be misled by promises of cures. No reputable therapist would claim to be able to cure severe mental illness.

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free affirmations Self Belief

Present Tense Affirmations

I always succeed
I am confident
I achieve massive success
I am capable of reaching any goal
I am ready for anything
I am always positive
My mind is completely focused on success
I am able to handle whatever life brings my way
I am a beautiful person
Others see me as confident and successful

Future Tense Affirmations

I will believe in myself
I will develop an unshakeable self belief
Each day I feel more powerful and capable
I am transforming into someone who can achieve anything
I will achieve whatever I set my mind to
I am starting to feel more and more confident in my abilities
I will always love, respect, and believe in myself unconditionally
Self belief is transforming me into a highly successful person
Others are beginning to notice my confident attitude
Developing self belief will help me to achieve my goals

Natural Affirmations

I believe in myself completely
Achieving success is normal for me
Self belief comes naturally to me
I believe that I can achieve anything I want
Others see me as a highly capable person
I am the kind of person who confidently goes after success
It is normal for me to feel great about myself
I find it easy to pursue my goals with confidence
I am a high achiever
I always find a way to succeed

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free affirmations Fear of rejection

Present Tense Affirmations

I am free from fear of rejection
I am socially confident
I take risks even when I feel fear
I remain relaxed even though I might be rejected
I always stay positive in intimidating social situations
I am confident in new situations
I am good at talking to new people
I always take the risk of going after something I want
I accept rejection with a positive attitude
I think positively about myself no matter how others may feel

Future Tense Affirmations

I will overcome my fear of rejection
Every day I become more confident and outgoing
Taking social risks is becoming easier
I am finding myself more relaxed in social situations
Introducing myself to new people is becoming easier
I will stay positive even if I am rejected
I am becoming naturally confident and outgoing
I am beginning to enjoy the excitement of meeting new people
I am starting to let my guard down and take chances
Each day I become more confident in the face of uncertainty

Natural Affirmations

I am naturally carefree
Confidence comes naturally to me
I accept myself no matter what happens
I know that rejection is a natural part of life
I know I will succeed eventually
I speak my mind without fear of rejection
Feeling confident is the most natural thing in the world
Others are attracted to my positive and inviting energy
When new opportunities come my way I take action
People see me as someone who isn’t afraid to take risks

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