Therapy work sheet

At the start of therapy it is important to think about your goals for treatment.

DESCRIBE THE PROBLEMS THAT LED YOU INTO THERAPY

 

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Imagine that while you are sleeping all of your problems are solved. When you wake up how will you know that things are better? What specific changes do you notice.

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You Learn

After a while, you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,

And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
And company doesn’t mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts,
And presents aren’t promises.

And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open,
With the grace of an adult
Not the grief of a child.

And you learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.

After awhile, you learn
That even the sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden, decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn that you really can endure…
…That you really are strong
And you really do have worth.

And you learn and learn.
With every new change you learn.

JmaC
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Medical and psychiatric sleep disorders

Sleep disorders associated with medical disorders

1. Alcoholism

Alcohol abuse and dependency commonly disturb sleep. After 30 minutes of alcohol consumption, subjective sleepiness increases and stays high for four hours. After that, sleep become fragmented as the lowered alcohol level increases arousals. When alcoholics abstain from alcohol, sleep can be severely disrupted, and the short episodes of sleep they do get are often plagued by nightmares and other anxiety dreams.

2. Sleeping sickness (African sleeping sickness, Gambina trypanosomiasis)

This is a chronic protozoan brain infection that produces excessive sleepiness.

3. Nocturnal cardiac ischemia

Chest pains due to atherosclerotic heart disease that keep the sleeper awake at night.

4. Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease

Lung or bronchial problems that inhibit lung function (like emphysema) can cause severe insomnia.

5. Asthma

Asthma attacks during sleep usually wakes up the sleeper.

6. Sleep-related gastroesophageal reflux

The victim wakes up from sleep with a sour taste in the mouth or with heartburn. This is because some of the stomach contents have been regurgitated into the esophagus during the night.

7. Peptic Ulcer

The pain of ulcers can waken the sleeper frequently during the night.

8. Fibrositis syndrome (fibromyositis, fibromalgia)

This syndrome is characterized by diffuse muscle and bone pain, chronic fatigue during the day, and unrefreshing sleep at night.

Sleep problems associated with neurological disorders

1. Degenerative brain disorders

Cerebral degenerative disorders such as Huntington’s disease, Alzheimer’s disease, Pick’s disease, Parkinson’s disease, ALS, and others can disrupt sleep at night.. Fatal familial insomnia is a rare, inherited degenerative disorder that begins with sleep troubles and progresses within a few months to a total lack of sleep, and then death.

2. Sleep-related epilepsy

Epileptic seizures can be found in either wakefulness or sleep, and there are some types that are found mostly in sleep. These seizures disrupt sleep.

3. Sleep-related headaches

Headaches can strike during sleep. In some people, sleep- related headache is more common than waking headaches.

Sleep disorders associated with psychiatric disorders

1. Psychoses

Psychoses like schizophrenia and those that are drug-induced are characterized by delusions, hallucinations, incoherence, catatonic behavior, or inappropriate emotions. Insomnia or excessive sleepiness is also common in individuals suffering from such psychoses.

2. Mood disorders

Mood disorders include depression, mania, and hypomania. Insomnia is usually the result, but excessive sleepiness can occur too.

3. Anxiety disorders

Anxiety disorders are characterized by unusually great anxiety and avoidance of whatever seems to cause it. Anxiety disorders can create sleep-onset association disorders or sleep-maintainance insomnia.

4. Panic disorder

Panic disorders are commonly called phobias: claustrophobia (fear of enclosed spaces), agoraphobia (fear of open spaces), and the like. Extreme fear and anxiety can occur unexpectedly, and panic episodes can waken people from their sleep.

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Symptoms of stress

Early warning Signs of Stress

bullet Menstrual problems
bullet Speech difficulties
bullet More impatient
bullet Headaches
bullet Infertility
bullet Ulcers
bullet Nail biting
bullet Grinding teeth
bullet Low blood sugar
bullet High blood sugar
bullet Need more sleep
bullet Tired but can’t sleep
bullet Sudden weight loss
bullet Sudden weight gain
bullet Low blood pressure
bullet High blood pressure
bullet Lack of coordination
bullet Repeated influenza
bullet Repeated colds
bullet Muscle aches
bullet Hair loss
bullet Chest pain
bullet Forgetfulness
bullet Nervous talking
bullet Lower back pain
bullet Loss of appetite
bullet Increased appetite
bullet High cholesterol
bullet High triglycerides
bullet Excessive fatigue
bullet Gastric disturbance
bullet Withdraw from social life
Physical signs and symptoms of stress

bullet Increased heart rate
bullet Pounding heart
bullet Elevated blood pressure
bullet Sweaty palms
bullet Tightness of the chest, neck, jaw, and back muscles
bullet Headache
bullet Diarrhea
bullet Constipation
bullet Urinary hesitancy
bullet Trembling
bullet Twitching
bullet Stuttering and other speech difficulties
bullet Nausea
bullet Vomiting
bullet Sleep disturbances
bullet Fatigue
bullet Shallow breathing
bullet Dryness of the mouth or throat
bullet Susceptibility to minor illness
bullet Cold hands
bullet Itching
bullet Being easily startled
bullet Chronic pain and
bullet Dysponesis.

Emotional signs and symptoms of stress

bullet Irritability
bullet Angry outbursts
bullet Hostility
bullet Depression
bullet Jealously
bullet Restlessness
bullet Withdrawal
bullet Anxiousness
bullet Diminished initiative
bullet Feelings of unreality or over-alertness
bullet Reduction of personal involvement with others
bullet Lack of interest
bullet Tendency to cry
bullet Being critical of others
bullet Self-deprecation
bullet Nightmares
bullet Impatience
bullet Decreased perception of positive
bullet Experience opportunities
bullet Narrowed focus
bullet Obsessive rumination
bullet Reduced self-esteem
bullet Insomnia
bullet Changes in eating habits and
bullet Weakened positive emotional response reflexes.

Cognitive/Perceptual Signs and Symptoms of Stress

bullet Forgetfulness
bullet Preoccupation
bullet Blocking
bullet Blurred vision
bullet Errors in judging distance
bullet Diminished or exaggerated fantasy life
bullet Reduced creativity
bullet Lack of concentration
bullet Diminished productivity
bullet Lack of attention to detail
bullet Orientation to the past
bullet Decreased psychomotor reactivity and coordination
bullet Attention deficit
bullet Disorganization of thought
bullet Negative self-esteem
bullet Diminished sense of meaning in life
bullet Lack of control/need for too much control
bullet Negative self-statements and negative evaluation of experiences

Behavioral Signs and Symptoms of Stress

bullet Increased smoking
bullet Aggressive behaviors (such as driving – road rage, etc.)
bullet Increased alcohol or drug use
bullet Carelessness
bullet Under-eating
bullet Over-eating
bullet Withdrawal
bullet Listlessness
bullet Hostility
bullet Accident-proneness
bullet Nervous laughter
bullet Compulsive behavior and
bullet Impatience.

 

 

 

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Diagnosis for GAD General anxiety disorder

According to the diagnostic manual, you have Generalized Anxiety Disorder if:

bullet You are excessively anxious, worry about all kinds of things, and find it difficult to control the worry.
bullet Along with anxiety and worry, you have at least three of the following six symptoms:

(1) You feel restless or on edge.
(2) You get tired easily.
(3) You have trouble concentrating or your mind goes blank.
(4) You feel irritable.
(5) Your muscles are tense.
(6) You have trouble falling or staying asleep.

bullet The anxiety is not related to substance or medication use, to having a medical illness, or to having another psychiatric disorder.
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Anxiety

Anxiety is the body’s response to fear. It plays a valuable role in self-preservation – the fear of the consequences often prevents us from taking unnecessary risks. Anxiety as a disorder results from the fear response becoming out of proportion to the actual risk. Anxiety disorders involve excessive levels of negative emotions, such as fear, worry, nervousness, and tension, and the anxious feelings occur involuntarily despite your best attempts to avoid them or stave them off.

The body responds to anxiety stimulus both physically and mentally. Anxiety can lead to over-stimulation of the sympathetic nervous system. It manifests by the physical symptoms such as a racing heartbeat, sweating and trembling, and psychological symptoms such as restlessness, insomnia and difficulty in concentrating.

Anxiety is often seen as a triggering of the fight-or-flight reaction, causing excess adrenaline to be produced by the adrenal glands, which in turn produce other hormones (catecholamines) that affect various parts of the body, such as heartbeat and respiration. (Seeholisticonline.com stress infocenter for more information.)

Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) is not taken seriously as a medical condition by many people-including doctors-yet it is a debilitating mental illness that often leads to tragic outcomes for the individuals who suffer from it.

Generalized anxiety disorder is often found to be associated with (comorbidity) major depression. 14% of patients whose GAD is accompanied by major depression have attempted suicide at least once, according to Martin Keller, MD, chief of psychiatry, Brown University, Providence, R.I. What is interesting is that even in those who were not diagnosed with depression, 11% have attempted suicide. (JAMA 1989;262:2654).

There are two types of anxiety disorders based on the origin of the cause.

Exogenous anxiety is provoked by an identifiable danger or stressor existing outside of the person. For example, if your spouse is ill with a high fever, your exogenous anxiety is a natural response to the situation.

Endogenous anxiety is produced within the person. It can be caused by internal conflicts, such as having to make a tough decision. In this case, the cause of the anxiety is not always identifiable.

Anxiety disorders, like other mental illnesses, reflect dysfunctions within the brain. We are beginning to understand the specific circuits in the brain that underlie post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder and perhaps panic disorder. We are on the path to discovering genes that make people vulnerable to anxiety disorders.

“Anxiety disorders are the most common mental illnesses in America, yet many people who have them are suffering in silence and secrecy, inappropriately ashamed or unaware of the availability of excellent treatments,” according to Steven E. Hyman, M.D., Director of National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). “Most people with anxiety disorders, depression or other mental illnesses face great difficulty receiving appropriate treatment due to widespread lack of understanding and stigma.”

Anxiety disorders consist of a group of illnesses: obsessive-compulsive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, phobias, panic disorders and post-traumatic stress disorder. 

Panic Disorder – Characterized by panic attacks, sudden feelings of terror that strike repeatedly and without warning. Physical symptoms include chest pain, heart palpitations, shortness of breath, dizziness, abdominal discomfort, feelings of unreality, and fear of dying. Panic disorder afflicts approximately 1 to 2% of the U.S. population with women being twice as likely to develop it. It typically strikes in young adulthood with roughly half of all sufferers developing the condition before age 24.

Agoraphobia is the fear of being in places or situations from which escape may be difficult or embarrassing or in which help may not be available in the event of a panic attack. Agoraphobia is intimately related to panic disorder, and the two frequently occur together.

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder – Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) afflicts about 2% of the U.S. population in a given year. People with OCD suffer intensely from recurrent, unwanted thoughts (obsessions) or rituals (compulsions) that seem impossible to control.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder – Post-traumatic stress disorder affects about 7.8% of the population. It is often associated with war veterans. However it can occur in anyone who has experienced a severe and usual physical or mental trauma such as war, rape, child abuse, natural disasters or crashes. The severity of the disorder increases if the trauma was unanticipated. People who suffer from PTSD re-experience the event that traumatized them through nightmares, psychic numbing, excessive alertness and highly sharpened startle reaction, and in generalized anxiety, depression, and inability to sleep, nightmares, flashbacks, numbing of emotions, feeling angry, irritable, and distracted.

Phobias – Extreme, disabling and irrational fear of something that really poses little or no actual danger; the fear leads to avoidance of objects or situations and can cause people to limit their lives. Phobias afflict approximately 13 to 15% of Americans who may experience one or more phobias in a given year.

Generalized Anxiety Disorder – Chronic, exaggerated worry about everyday routine life events and activities, lasting at least six months. Almost always anticipating the worst even though there is little reason to expect it; accompanied by physical symptoms, such as fatigue, trembling, muscle tension, headache, or nausea. Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) afflicts about 3 to 4 % of the U.S. population in a given year.

 

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Drugs that can cause depression

Some prescription drugs can cause depression. Here are some examples:

bullet Nytol and other over-the-counter sleeping aids containing diphenhydramine
bullet Diazepam (Valium), alprazolam (Xanax), and other prescription antianxiety medications known as benzodiazepines
bullet Medicines prescribed to strengthen the heart such as digitoxin (Crystodigin) and digoxin (Lanoxin), known as digitalis medicines
bullet Prescription medications for high blood pressure and angina such as propranolol (Inderal) and other beta blocker drugs
bullet Reserpine (Ser-Ap-Es) and other high blood pressure medications that are prescribed to control nerve impulses
bullet Alcohol

If you are taking one of these drugs and are feeling unusually sad, consult with your physician. Under no circumstances should you discontinue any prescription medications without your doctor’s consent.

 

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Relief and common sense for depression

The following techniques are good for getting relief from depression. Try any two of these for a quick relief.

Aerobic Exercise: Twenty to thirty minutes of bicycling, swimming, dancing, running, or brisk walking can relieve most common, mild depressions. It has been proven that depressed people who had never exercised improved considerably when starting an intensive exercise program which included long distance walking and jogging. They found a new zest for life, became more stress-tolerant, and improved their self-image. Details.

Take a Stimulating Shower: Start showering with warm water, gradually making it hotter. Then decrease the temperature as low as you can stand it. Cold water stimulates the nerves close to the surface of the skin and is rejuvenating. Do not do this if you have a serious illness or are pregnant, premenstrual, or menstruating.

Deep Breathing Exercises: In just ten minutes, you can oxygenate your body and relieve your depression by practicing deep breathing and relaxation. Details.

Movement and Breathing Meditation: Do five minutes of acupressure breathing exercise, “Letting Go of Depression.” This exercise will deepen your breathing and enable you to feel better and in control. Details.

Two hours of early-morning sun help lift depression. Spend as much time as possible outdoors.
Take daily walks, preferably in the park or along the sea shore, to connect with nature and appreciate the beauty it offers. Fresh air and deep breathing exercises are both good in aiding relaxation and promoting good oxygenation of the entire body.

Avoid spending a lot of time in concrete buildings. Some scientists suggest that overexposure to electro-magnetic smog from computer terminals and kitchen appliances, especially the microwave oven, upsets the balance of the body’s own electromagnetic field and leads to depression.

A complete change of environment, such as a vacation in the mountains, is extremely helpful.

Give yourself a “treat” or special activity occasionally, such as fresh flowers.

Get plenty of rest. Overtiredness and depleted nerves create a feeling of depression.

Massage by a family member or an understanding friend is very comforting and improves the outlook on life, especially under stressful emotional situations.

Take up journaling: If you’re uncomfortable talking about your depression with others or have no one whom you can share your thoughts with, you can write down your feelings in a journal. Writing will help you organize your thoughts and provide an outlet for your feelings. This can help dissolve unpleasant emotions. We recommend that you set aside 20 to 30 minutes daily to jot down your thoughts, feelings, and observations about life.

Volunteering and helping others is another way to focus on someone other than yourself and your own problems. Keep yourself busy. Take up projects and hobbies such as gardening, woodworking, traveling, and other projects. This will prevent you from dwelling on whatever is making you feel unhappy.

Write down a list of goals you want to accomplish in the next week or month and dive into them. Always have something to look forward to and you’ll be less susceptible to the blues. Staying active gives you a sense of purpose for the future. And that is an effective antidote to depression.

Add 5 drops of rose oil to sweet almond oil or your regular massage oil and get a massage to uplift your spirits.

Drugs, caffeine, cigarettes and contraceptives induce depression. Paint solvents or any toxic chemicals are also capable of producing symptoms of depression. Avoid contacts with these.

Avoid black tea, and alcohol. Use herbs in cooking, fresh in salads, and as spices. Eat more wheat germ, which is an energizer. Pears, apples, and nuts contain bromine which assists the nervous system in functioning properly.

Do not keep a grudge. It takes an enormous amount of emotional energy to hold a grudge, and a guilty conscience damages the health. Learn the art of forgiving.

Set your day’s tasks by prioritizing, and be realistic in your goal setting.

Melodious, harmonious music can uplift and influence the psyche and improve the outlook on life. However, the selection of music is important. Music with repetitive, loud rhythms and dissonant and/or atonal arrangements actually causes depression in some people. The soothing influence of music relaxes cramped muscles, improves the function of the glands and promotes good digestion.

Find a friend to share your feelings with. If you are in a seemingly hopeless situation, share it with someone who can look at it from a different point of view. Simply knowing someone cares and wants to listen helps.

Have a good cry. If talking about your problems leads to tears, go ahead and cry. Crying is a wonderful release-especially if you know what you’re crying about.

Sit down and analyze the situation. A lot of times, if you can pinpoint the source of your depression, you’ll feel a lot better. Once you understand the problem, you can begin to figure out what you need to do about it. Sometimes when you start to gauge your assumptions against reality, you may find things aren’t as you think they are. For example, if you are depressed because you suspect that your lover may be cheating on you go ahead and ask. You may be wrong.

 

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Positive thinking

Positive Thinking

Avoid negative thoughts of powerlessness, dejection, failure, and despair. Chronic stress make us vulnerable to negative suggestion. Learn to focus on positives.

bullet Focus on your strengths
bullet Learn from the stress you are under
bullet Look for opportunities in the stressful situation
bullet Seek out the positive – make a change

Here is one way to get out of the destructive negative thinking habits. All possible situations we face can be classified into two categories:

One: Situations where we can do something about to change the outcome. In this case, don’t just sit there and worry about it. Go ahead and take care of it. You have control. Procrastination is the root cause for many stressful episodes.

Second: Situations where you have no control on the outcome. In this case sitting and worrying will not make any difference on the outcome. So, don’t worry about it. Let the situation resolve by itself; you cannot do anything about this anyway.

Dean Ornish talked about how our culture teaches us to dwell on the high stress activities. He gave this example: Two Arabs took their Mercedes car out for a spin in the desert. Although there probably was not another car in the 10-mile radius, these two guys managed to have a head-on collision. Now, if this happened in the USA or many other parts of the world, the drivers will be getting out of the car and showering each other with abuses, threats and remind the other person how stupid he was to cause the accident. What did the Arabs do after they had their cars totaled? They rush out of their cars, run to each other; hugs and says, “This is great! Allah, wanted us to meet.”

Stress IS a choice.

Every day, I can CHOOSE to be happy or sad, stressed or relaxed, etc.

If things are getting hectic I ask myself, “What can I do about it today, right now?” 

Sometimes, the answer is “nothing.” When that happens, I just try to go on about the business of taking care of what I CAN do, today, right now. 

If I have to stand in line, I can choose to watch the folks around me, look at the decorations, balance my checkbook, read a little of the paperback in my pocket, talk to a little child or old person-or I can silently bitch about standing in line until my blood pressure goes up and my feet hurt. It is a CHOICE!

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The key to moving on is forgiveness–of self and others. Although it is a waste of energy to worry about future events over which we have no control, it is human nature to do so. Plan and prioritize as best you can, and then be easy on yourself’. The future hasn’t happened, and the past is not going to happen again. In the words of Ram Dass, “Be here now.” You can start by recognizing and accepting when a situation is beyond your control.

And keep on practicing. Pythagoras said, “Choose always the way that seems the best, however rough it may be. Custom will soon render it easy and agreeable. “Just as patterns and habits can trap us when we let them, we can make them our well-worn path to happiness and satisfaction.

 

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Serenity Prayer

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;courage to change the things I can;and the wisdom to know the difference-living one day at a time;enjoying one moment at a time;accepting hardships as the pathway to peace.

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