Emotional Attraction

What causes emotional attraction? Are physical attributes the primary factors that determine attraction or is similarity more important?

We all know how it feels to be attracted to someone – the old argument still lives on as to whether a person’s looks or personality influence us more, but let’s looks at what does attract people to each other.

Physical Attraction rules…

This factor is one of the most researched elements of attraction between couples. Good looking people, charismatic or dull, have a tendency to attract people the most. But does it override other factors, such as personality, wit and wealth? Walster put this to the test:

… or does it?

While we can idealise about dating the most attractive person we know, the rules of mathematics dictate that this can’t happen to all of us (at least at the same time). The matching hypothesis proposes that we are attracted to people who roughly similar to us in terms of aesthetics and personality. Why? Well, dating someone similar to us has two main advantages:

  1. We can achieve a balance between the two, without a more enviable partner running off with another, more attractive person
  2. By being attracted to someone on our level of looks, people are less likely to be rejected by someone else if they are better looking

Does this hypothesis hold true? In 1966, Walster decided to put this to the test with a Computer Dance experiment. Walster advertised a matchmaking dance, and admitted the first 376 men and 376 women for $1 each. Four judges then assessed each attendee’s attractiveness, while the people were asked to complete a questionnaire supposedly to help the organisers ‘match’ couples using a computer. What the questionnaire really aimed to do was to find similarities, but the people were eventually matched with dancing partners randomly, regardless of whether they were more or less physically attractive than one another. The dance was held 2 days later, with people knowing only the names of their partners. Therefore, they had only the night on which to base their impressions of their partners.

At the end of the night, partners self-assessed how attracted they felt to their partners. Those with more physically attractive acquaintances were more attracted to them, seemingly disproving the matching hypothesis.

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Emotions and Memory

How do your emotions affect your ability to remember information and recall past memories?

The question of how our how our brains memorize daily experiences has intrigued cognitive psychologists and neuroscientists for decades. Amongst a range of theories attempting to explain how we encode and later recall information, a curious influence over memory encoding has been observed: our emotional state at the time of an event occurring can affect our ability to memorize details of it.

Moreover, emotions are believed to play a role in determining whether we can recall a memory at the time we try to revisit it. Coaxing ourselves into the same mood we were experiencing when we witnessed an event, for instance, has been found to often have a positive effect on our chances of recalling specific details relating to it.

It appears that emotionally charged situations can lead us to create longer lasting memories of the event. When we are led to experience feelings of delight, anger or other states of mind, vivid recollections are often more possible than during everyday situations in which we feel little or no emotional attachment to an event.

The findings of a series of studies have implied that emotion plays a role at various specific stages of remembering (encoding) information, consolidating memories and during the recall of experiences at a later date. For instance, cognitive psychologist Donald MacKay and a team of researchers asked participants to take part in an emotional Stroop test, in which they were presented with different words in quick succession. Each word was printed in a different color, and subjects were asked to name the color. They were also later asked to recall the words after the initial test. MacKay found that taboo words, which were intended to elicit an emotional response, were recalled more frequently than words which carried less emotional connotations (MacKay et al, 2004).1

The results of MacKay’s experiment, and others with similar outcomes, suggest that an emotive state at the time we perceive and process an observation can positively affect the encoding of information into the short or even long-term memory.

Although the emotional Stroop test demonstrates this link between emotion and memory, the role of emotion has been long suspected.

In 1977, researchers at Harvard published a paper entitled Flashbulb Memories, in which they noted that people are often able to vividly recollect where they were when an event occurred that was significant to them. They used the example of the assassination of U.S. president John F. Kennedy, but many people will hold similarly detailed memories of what they were doing when they learned of the terrorist attacks of September 11th, 2001 or the death of a famous person such as Elvis Presley or Michael Jackson. Unlike a photographic memory, these “flashbulb memories” tend only to occur only when the event is felt to be of particular significance to a person or when it causes a state of surprise, supporting the idea that a person’s emotional state at the time of an event can influence whether or not it is encoded as a memory (Brown and Kulik, 1977).2

Now, the idea that we would be more likely to remember an event of historical significance than a mundane observation during a commute to work may seem obvious. The assassination of JFK is often considered to have been one of the most significant events in U.S. 20th Century history, even by those who were born after the event and only learnt of it in history classes. However, another study in which participants were asked to complete questionnaires to gauge their recollection of the attempted assassination of Ronald Reagan suggested that the significance of an event tends to be less influential than the emotions experienced at the time of encoding. Pillemer (1984) found that people’s reported emotional state at the time of the assassination attempt helped to influence whether memories would be  stored more than whether or not they merely rehearsed – considered or discussed – the memory afterwards.3

Why Would Emotions Influence Memory?

Whilst there appears to be mounting evidence in support of emotions’ role in memory, the question remains of why emotions, over judgements we exercise more control over, affect our encoding of events in this way. What purpose is served by being able to recall a distressing occasion that we would rather forget, better than the facts that we need to learn for an exam?

First, let us remember the evolutionary purpose served by emotional experiences. One theory suggests that our ability to experience distressing emotions, fear and anxiety is an inherited trait which has historically given our ancestors a survival advantage. Öhman and Mineka (2001) claimed that, as emotions tend to operate beyond our conscious control, their intuitive nature gives us an early warning of impending threats or dangers in our external environment (Öhman and Mineka, 2001).4 For example, whilst crossing through the powerful currents of a river, the feeling of fear alerts us to the danger to our lives and helps to ensure that we pay attention to hazards. Negative emotions may also deter us from engaging in such activities in the first place! Similarly, feelings of happiness created by a secure environment, such as a home, warm and free from threats, may encourage us to continue risk-averse, adaptive behavior.

Attention, Emotion and Memory

Whilst the emotional distortion of memory encoding and recall seems to be counter-productive to the maintenance of an accurate view of the outside world, their influence may be better understood in terms of how it affects our attention, and how subject of our focus in turn affects what our memories encode.

Research suggests that our brains are more likely to focus on stimuli of emotional significance. This was demonstrated in a study in which participants were shown a control set of emotionally neutral images with pictures such as those depicting various injuries, eliciting an emotional response. Schupp et al (2007) found that subjects’ attention increased when emotional images were displayed to them, suggesting that our attention is instinctively drawn to emotive subjects.5

As we tend to remember by focussing and elaborating on an observation, this may go some way to helping us to understand why emotions influence memories.

Although emotions can draw our attention to subjects, their influence on our conscious experience of the world does not end here. After switching our attention from one subject to another, a brief phenomenon may occur, known as an attentional blink, during which we are unable to fully focus on the second stimuli.

As a result, we may remember something less well if we have been focussing on something else immediately beforehand. Studies have suggested that there is an emotional component to this attentional blink.

In one experiment, researchers were able to limit participants’ ability to remember neutral information by presenting them with an emotive stimuli very shortly beforehand (Smith et al, 2006).6

Mood Congruence Effect

A person’s focus of attention will inevitably affect what they remember during an experience, but emotions appear to affect memory encoding more profoundly than simply drawing attention to a particular emotive subject over a neutral one.

Your emotional state at the time of an event can help to determine whether or not your observations during it will be stored ready for recall later on.

One study found that the subjects of an experiment were more able to associate with stories whose content matched their moods at the time of them being recounted to them. A happy person, for example, may associate more with characters who are positive and enthusiastic, whilst a sad person may identify with a character who is the subject of persecution. Gordon Bower, who conducted the study, found that this mood congruence effect – an association with stimuli which reflect our current mood – influenced people’s ability to remember information (Bower, 1981).7 The result of this effect is that you may be more able to recall having read a negative report in a newspaper if you were in a low mood, rather than happy, at the time of reading it.

Role of the Amygdalae

The means by which emotions are able help determine which memories are processed is also the subject of ongoing studies.

Whilst the process is still not fully understood, it is believed that the hippocampus and two amygdalae regions in the brain play key roles in processing both memories and emotions, and that interactions between the two may reinforce the link between memory and emotions.

One study which used tomography to monitor the amygdala found increased activity when remembering emotive stimuli, whether they were of a positive or negative nature.

Hamann et al (1999) also proposed that one role of the amygdala is to “modulate” activity in the hippocampus, which is believed to play a role in the formation of new memories (Hamann et al, 1999).8

Rehearsal and Retrieval

Whilst emotions are believed to affect the transformation of events into memories at the point of encoding, our mood whilst trying to recall events at a later date can affect our ability to access those memories.

In a joyous mood, we may be able to better remember past events that brought joy to us. For example, whilst on a beach, you may be able to recall happy memories of a memorable family gathering over a negative event. In contrast but following the same principle, whilst in a low mood, you may recall sad memories more easily. This correlation between our mood at the point of recall and the type of memories we able to recall is known as the mood-state dependent memory.

James Laird of Clark University demonstrated this effect in a series of experiments, in which they were able to artificially induce moods by varying participants’ facial expressions accordingly.

When subjects were asked to perform expressions which would create a fearful expression, for instance, they reported increased feelings of fear. Laird and his fellow researchers found that the induced mood then affected the memories that a participant was able to access – someone experiencing some emotions, such as fear, may be better able to remember other memories of similarly fearful events than when they are in a more emotional neutral state (Laird et al, 1989).9 This research appears to support the idea that memory recall is often mood-state dependent.

Emotions and Forgetting

If emotions help to determine whether or not a memory is consolidated into the long-term memory, it seems equally plausible that the emotions associated with a memory may influence a person’s ability to access it.

Psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud was one of the first people in the field of psychology to investigate the emotional associations linked to memories. Freud felt that memories of particularly traumatic events, or those which would cause distress to a person if dwelled upon them, may be repressed.

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Such memories are not entirely forgotten, but the conscious mind is prevented from recalling them in case, according to Freud, they created feelings of guilt or shame. Instead, they remain in the unconscious mind and affect us in ways that we do not realise. In a series of studies, Freud identified repressed feelings and memories as being the source of various phobias, for instance.

Using regression in a state of hypnosis, along with techniques such as free association, Freud believed that these memories could be brought back into the conscious mind so that a person may accept them and resolve issues associated with such repressed memories.

Rose-Tinted Glasses? The Fading Affect Bias

More recently, the effect of emotions on the memories that we forget has been identified in the form of the fading affect bias. This bias leads us to tend to forget memories of negative emotional valence and focus on memories which affect us more positively. Idealised memories of childhood, for instance, may be due to our minds focussing on the positive, rather than negative, events that occurred whilst growing up.

This fading affect bias was demonstrated in a 2009 study which tested the memory recall of hundreds of participants, and found that memories of a positive valence, when recalled to others, are more likely to remain accessible than those of a negative valence (Walker et al, 2009).10

The findings of these experiments support the results of a separate study in which hundreds of nuns were questioned regarding prior life events. Researchers found that the older participants were, the more they tended to recall memories of a positive valence than negative events (Kennedy, Mather and Cartensen, 2004).11 The older we get, it appears, the more we may view the past through ‘rose-tinted glasses’.

Effect of Suppressing Emotions

Can our conscious efforts to change our emotions during an event alter the way in which they affect our memories’ encoding of the experience?

Researchers at Stanford university tested this idea with experiments in which participants were shown varying stimuli such as a video. During the experiments, some participants were asked to suppress their emotions and not allow them to show to others. Afterwards, their ability to recall the stimuli presented to them was measured. Interestingly, people who had attempted to suppress their emotions tended to demonstrate an impaired ability to recall their experience afterwards compared to those who allowed their emotional state to show (Richards and Gross, 2000).12 One explanation for the results of this study is that a conscious focus on, and self-awareness of, one’s emotional state may detract from a person’s observation of their environment, including external stimuli such as the video.

Gender Differences

The way in which we allow signs of our emotions to show is not the only factor to affect the link between memory and emotional state. Gender differences, too, seem to influence memory, with males and females handling emotive memories differently.

fMRI scans conducted on people carrying our memory tasks whilst in a negative emotional state have revealed differences in how the brain processes information whilst a particular emotional state is being experienced. The scans revealed that activity may be focussed in the amygdala, as discussed earlier, in females compared to males (Koch et al, 2007).13

Further gender differences between the way memories are handled in males and females in an emotional state have also been found. Sabrina Kuhlmann and her colleagues carried out a study which tested the effect that cortisol, which is often released during stressful experiences, has memory recall. After inducing a state of stress and conducting a memory task, Kuhlmann found that the release of cortisol had a significant effect on male participants’ memories which did not occur to the same extent in females (Kuhlmann et al, 2001).14

Implications

The role that emotions play in our ability to encode and recall information may seem an inevitable, uncontrollable aspect of everyday life. However, the way in which emotions distort our perception and recollection of reality has implications beyond the study of psychology.

Take eyewitness testimonies in court cases, for example. Such valuable forms of evidence can play a key role in the legal process and in securing convictions. The reliability of eyewitness testimonies has become a subject of focus in recent years, with the influence of interrogation techniques and other factors being found to sometimes affect witnesses’ recall of events.

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Psychology of Happiness

The psychology behind happiness – how positive affect is quantified and what influences happiness.

Just how happy are you? Do you ever wish for a life that brought more moments to be joyful?

Happiness is often an elusive experience – people will go to great lengths for a fleeting moment of happiness. Even the U.S. Declaration of Independence, written in 1776, asserts the right to “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”.

But what precisely is happiness – how can it be quantified, and is there any measurable benefit to possessing a happy mindset over that of a more stoic realist?

“Happiness is a mystery like religion, and should never be rationalized.”
G.K. Chesterton, English author (1874-1936)

Happiness is a subjective experience – what brings elation to one person will not necessarily satisfy another – but from a psychological viewpoint, we must be able to quantify this state of mind in order to understand it.

When we discuss happiness, we are referring to a person’s enjoyment or satisfaction, which may last just a few moments or extend over the period of a lifetime. Happiness does not have to be expressed in order to be enjoyed – it is an internalized experience, varying in degrees, from mild satisfaction to wild euphoria.

Psychologists often refer to happiness as positive affect – a mood or emotional state which is brought about by generally positive thoughts and feelings. Positive affect contrasts with low moods and negativity, a state of mind described as negative affect in which people take a pessimistic view of their achievements, life situation and future prospects.

Quantifying Happiness

With positive affect being subjective and relative to the individual, can happiness be measured? The United Nations seems to believe that it can, and releases the World Happiness Report, which ranks countries by the self-reported happiness of its citizens.

In 2016, the report listed Denmark as the happiest nation, followed by Switzerland and Iceland. The US was the 13th happiest country with the UK ranking 23rd. Nordic countries feature prominently as being amongst the happiest societies in the world (Helliwell, Layard and Sachs, 2016).1

The World Happiness Report measured happiness levels using the Cantril Ladder, a scale devised by U.S. psychologist Hadley Cantril (1906-1969). Participants are asked to imagine a ladder with 10 rungs, with rung number 1 representing the worst life imaginable, working upto the optimal life represented by the ladder’s highest rung. They are then asked to identify the step number that they feel reflects their life situation, either at present, in the past or how they envisage it to be in the future (Cantril, 1965).2

The four happiest countries identified by the World Happiness Report placed themselves at 7.5 or higher on the Cantril Ladder (Helliwell, Layard and Sachs, 2016).1

Given that these countries are highly developed and prosperous, it is easy to assume that positive affect is linked to wealth. A common wish in our modern age is to possess more money: wealth can signify success and increases a person’s purchasing power, giving them choices that they might not have been able to make before. But can money buy happiness?

It’s a question that troubles not only psychologists, but economists, too. Richard Easterlin, a professor of economics at the University of Southern California, noticed a strange paradox involving money and happiness. Should a positive correlation exist between the two, we might expect citizens of developed countries to be happier than those of less prosperous nations.

Easterlin discovered that this is not the case – rich people within countries tend to be happier than the poorest in the same country, but overall, more prosperous countries are no happier than their poorer counterparts. These findings, known as the Easterlin paradox, contradict popular assumptions that wealthy people enjoy happier lives.

A study of lottery winners and victims of serious accidents delved further into the link between money and happiness. The happiness of 22 winners of large lottery prizes was compared to that of both controls and 29 people who had been paralysed as a result of an accident. The level of happiness experienced by winning the lottery had numbed people to the smaller joys of everyday live – a resistance the researchers described as “habitation”, as only more significant events could bring the winners joy (Brickman, Coates, Janoff-Bulman, 1978).3

The results of these two studies suggest that money alone cannot bring people lasting happiness.

Why it Matters: Benefits of Happiness

Happiness signifies an increased enjoyment of life, which is of course beneficial in itself. But beyond this obvious advantage, are there any further gains to be had from increased happiness?

One study looked at wide-ranging research into happiness to better understand the link between happiness in successful people.

Researchers suggested that there may be a causal link between positive affect and success – that success not only brings happiness, but that a person who is happy has an higher chance of achieving success than somebody experiencing negative affect (Lyubomirsky et al, 2005).4

The findings of this research support another, earlier, study by Daubman and Nowicki (1987) which artificially induced positive affect in participants in a series of experiments by subjecting them to watching comic films and providing them with sweets.

Subjects were then timed whilst they completed an exercise in creative problem-solving. The researchers found that those in a state of positive affect were able to solve the problems quicker than those in a neutral state or those experiencing negative affect (Daubman and Nowicki, 1987).5 Positive affect prior to success, it appears, boosts our intuitive abilities and enables us to achieve more.

Do Happier People Live Longer?

Can happiness lead to a healthier, longer life? Koopmans et al (2010) conducted a 15-year longitudinal study into the happiness of elderly people, known as the Arnhem Elderly Study. They found higher levels of happiness in those who lived longer.6

But does happiness lead to a longer life or does good health and longevity give people reason to be happier? The researchers also accounted for the participants’ levels of physical activity and found that, once exercise was accounted for, the link between happiness and life span was insignificant. This indicates that happiness may lead to increased physical activity, which in turn can be beneficial.

Indeed, a 2011 study suggested that exercise in sedentary males could be increased by first boosting their positive affect levels (Baruth, 2011).7

Encouraging Happiness

Book store shelves are awash with self-help books claiming to nurture happiness – but is positive affect something that we can nurture, or as the World Happiness Report emphasises, is influenced by our environment and life circumstances, often beyond our control?

Let’s look at some factors which can influence and encourage positive affect:

Acts of Kindness

Contradicting the idea that possessions can bring happiness, giving to others may in fact be more beneficial in terms of positive affect. Stephen Post (2005) noted that, whilst citizens in the US and Europe are more wealthy than previous generations, we are no happier as a result. Post emphasizes the personal benefit that acts of altruism – selfless giving or assistance – can provide (Post, 2005).8

The effect of selflessness on happiness was further supported by a 2008 experiment in which participants were given a gift of $5 or $20 and instructed to either spend it on themselves or on other people. Whilst the amount of money received had no notable effect on happiness, participants who gave away the money experienced elevated positive affect following the experiment (Dunn et al, 2008).9

Relationships

Familial relationships and friendships affect happiness and can also be impacted by a person’s levels of positive affect. Our ability to make friends often affects our self-esteem – unsurprisingly, people with extrovert personalities have been to found to enjoy higher levels of happiness than introverts (Argyle and Lu, 1990).10

The contagiousness of happiness is not limited to direct relationships: it can influence the happiness of people by up to 3 degrees of separation from the original individual11

A 20-year study of interpersonal relationships demonstrated just how important the happiness of a person’s friends and family is to their own wellbeing.

Between 1983 and 2003, James Fowler and Nicholas Christakis looked relationships between close relatives and found that the happiness of a friend or close family member who lives up to a mile away from a person can boost their prospects of happiness by around 25%.

The study also suggests that the contagiousness of happiness is not limited to direct relationships: it can influence the happiness of people by up to 3 degrees of separation from the original individual (Fowler and Christakis, 2008).11

Spousal relationships can be of particular influence on happiness levels. A study across 17 countries found that marriage does tend to lead to increased levels of happiness. Cohabiting also boosts happiness but by a lesser degree than marriage. The research emphasises the secondary effects of matrimony, such as the emotional and financial support provided by a partner, may explain this change rather than the act of marriage itself (Stack and Eshleman, 1998).12

Self-Determined Happiness

Positive affect might be influenced by external factors in our everyday life, but if people yearn for more happiness, can they bring it about themselves? Schütz et al (2013) studied the habits and happiness of people whose affect levels varied. The study observed a number of ways in which some people were able to proactively nurture their own happiness:13

The self-fulfilling participants showed significantly higher results than all other profiles on the direct attempts strategy, suggesting that in order to increase their happiness the self-fulfilling individuals are more prone to directly attempt to smile, get themselves in a happy mood, improve their social skills, and work on their self-control.

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Pretending to be happy through outward expressions of happiness, it appears, may have led the individuals to internalise this joy.

Maintaining an optimistic mindset can also bear further benefits. Brissette and Scheier (2002)14 found that college students who started the semester with a sense of optimism were more able to cope with stressful events and felt that they had better social support even when their friendship network had not increased.

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Emotion: Feelings How do we define emotions?

One area of confusion is that feelings are often loosely equated with emotions. This is all right for colloquial use. I can ask a friend how he is feeling today ; it would be awkward to ask him how emotional he is being today. Some people might take offence if they were thought to be emotional, whereas it is acceptable for them to show feelings. However, there are fundamental differences between feelings and emotions.

There are just three feelings : the pleasant one, the unpleasant one, and the neutral one. This is the Buddhist understanding and I verified this fact directly during the time when I used to practise meditation. In the past, some moral theorists believed that the neutral feeling is only an equal mixture of both pleasant and unpleasant feelings, so that the net effect is zero. But meditational awareness disproves this assumption.

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Eye Reading (Body Language)

What someone’s eyes can tell you about what they’re thinking.

They’ve existed for 540 million years and most of us have a pair, but aside from giving us sight, what can we tell from looking at someone’s eyes?

People say that the eyes are a “window to the soul” – that they can tell us much about a person just by gazing into them. Given that we cannot, for example, control the size of our pupils, body language experts can deduce much of a person’s state by factors relating to the eyes.

The Pupils

The pupils are a part of our body language that we practically have no control over.

As well as adjusting the amount of light taken in the process of sight (Dilation: pupil size increasing; Contracting: pupil size decreasing), Eckhard Hess (1975) found that the pupil dilates when we are interested in the person we’re talking to or the object we’re looking at.

As an indicator, check a friend’s pupil size when you’re talking to them about something interesting, then change the subject to something less interesting and watch their pupils contract!

Eye Contact

For making contact and communicating with a person, effective eye contact is essential to our every day interaction with people, and also to those who want to be effective communicators in the public arena:

Persistent eye contact

Look, Don’t Stare.

Staring

Look, don’t stare. Over-powering eye contact can make the recipient uncomfortable.

Generally in Western societies and many other cultures, eye contact with a person is expected to be regular but not overly persistent. Constant eye contact is often considered to be an attempt at intimidation, causing the person who’s the object of a person’s gaze to feel overly studied and uncomfortable.

Even between humans and non-humans, persistent eye contact is sometimes unadvisable: the New Zealand Medical Journal reported that one reason so many young children fall victim to attacks by pet dogs is their over-poweringly regular eye contact with pets, which causes them to feel threatened and defensive.

Overly persistent eye contact is also a sign of a person’s over-awareness of the messages they are emmiting. In the case of a person who is try to deceive someone, they may distort their eye contact so that they’re not avoiding it – a widely recognised indicator of lying.

Avoiding Eye Contact

Evasive Eye Contact

Evasive Eye Contact

Evasive eye contact: a sign of discomfort.

Why do we avoid looking at a person? It may be because we feel ashamed to be looking at them if we’re being dishonest of trying to deceive them. However, Scotland’s University of Stirling found that, in a question-and-answer study among children, those who maintained eye contact were less likely to come up with the correct answer to a question than those who looked away to consider their response.

Eye contact, as a socialising device, can take a surprising amount of effort to maintain when this energy could be spend on calculating, as opposed to perceptive, tasks.

Crying

Did You Know?

Humans are believed to be the only species on Earth to cry, though there is emerging evidence of it in elephants and gorillas.1

In most cultures around the world, crying is considered to be caused by an extreme experience of emotion; usually, it’s associated with sadness or grief, though often extreme experiences of happiness, and through humor, can cause us to cry. Often, forced crying in order to gain sympathy or deceive others is known as “crocodile tears” – an expression from myths of crocodiles ‘crying’ when catching prey.

Blinking

Aside from our instinctive need to blink, our emotions and feelings towards the person we’re talking to can cause us to subconciously alter our blink rate.

Blinking more than the average 6-10 times per minute (see right) can be a good indicator that a person is attracted to the person they’re talking to, and is for this reason used as a sign of flirting.

Did You Know?

Men and women blink at roughly the same rate as each other – between 6 and 10 times per minute in a normal setting. Additionally, animals such as tortoises are known to blink at different times with each eye.

Winking

In the West, we consider winking to be a cheeky form of flirting – something we do with people that we know or are on good terms with. However, there are cross-cultural variations on the issue of winking: some Asian cultures frown up on the use of this form of facial expression.2

Eye Direction

What does the direction that someone looking in tell us about what they’re thinking or feeling? Well, probably just what they’re looking at.

The thing to look out for is the direction someone’s eyes are looking in when they’re thinking. Looking to their left indicates that they’re reminiscing or trying to remember something. On the other hand, looking to their right indicates more creative thoughts, and this is often interpreted as a potential sign that someone may be being deceitful in some situations, i.e. creating a version of events.

Note: if a person is left handed, the direction indicators may be reversed.

Eye Reading Summary

From the findings above, what’s the best way to convey a “positive you” using eye contact? If you want to show you’re interested in what someone has to say, make eye contact often, but remember that unblinking stares are disconcerting.

Researchers have found that when people are engaged in an interesting conversation, their eyes remain focused on their partner’s face about 80% of the time – but not exclusively on the eyes. Instead, they focus on the eyes for two to three minutes, then move down to the nose or lips, then back up to the eyes. Occasionally, they look down to the table momentarily, then back up to the eyes.

Avoid looking up and to the right – it’s a universal symbol of boredom and dismissal.

Also remember the following key points with regards to eye contact:

  • Demonstrate that you’re interested and active in interacting with someone by maintaining regular intervals of eye contact, but remember that contant eye contact can be intimidating.
  • Pupil dilation can indicate someone is interested; it could, alternatively, be that the room has become brighter.
  • Wink sparingly, even in cultures you know accept such a gesture in jest.
  • Avoid “crocodile tears” if you want to be considered trustworthy by your peers.

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Study: Unhappy Music Creates ‘Pleasant’ Emotions

Listening to sad music can create ‘pleasant’ emotions, according to a recent study.

Listening to melancholic music “induces pleasant emotion”, according to a recent study published in the journal Frontiers in Psychology.

Conventional wisdom would hold that listening to a sad song could lead a person to experience negative emotions. The opening scene of the 2001 film Bridget Jones’s Diary typifies this idea when, as Bridget ponders the single life with a glass of wine in hand, she listens to Jamie O’Neal wistfully singing All By Myself.

Dr. Ai Kawakami, a researcher at the Brain Science Institute at Tamagawa University, Japan, questioned why a person would choose listen to a piece of sad music if they knew that it would lead to an undesirably sad mood.

Kawakami noted that the range of notes used in a piece of music affected listeners’ perception of whether it is ‘happy’ or ‘sad’. Pieces composed in a major key, as many upbeat pop songs are, tend to be viewed as jolly and positive, whilst sad pieces are often written in a minor key.  However, for the purposes of the experiment, pop music and easily recognisable pieces were unsuitable to use when measuring participants’ moods.

“If well-known music had been used for the experiment, then certain participants might have had personal memories connected with this music, and the emotion evoked would thus have been influenced by those memories”, Kawakami writes.

In the study, forty-four participants were asked to listen to a number of pieces of music. Seventeen people had existing musical experience or were studying music at college, whilst the remaining twenty-seven were studying an unrelated subject at college or had no obvious expertise in music. These two groups enabled the researchers to discern whether a knowledgeable appreciation of music influenced the way in which it affected a person’s emotions, with the expectation that, “When people listened to minor-key music, those with more musical experience would feel more pleasant emotion than would be indicated by their reported perceptions of the same sad music” (Kawakami et al, 2013b).

Samples of three classical pieces, each approximately thirty seconds in duration, were chosen for listeners to experience: La Separation by Glinka in F minor, Etude “Sur Mer” by Blumenfeld in G minor and Allegro de Concierto by Granados, which was transposed into the key of G major for the purposes of the experiment.

In a series of four listening tasks, participants heard pieces of music individually and were asked after each piece to describe the emotion induced by it, by rating emotionally-descriptive terms from a list of 62 words, rating the aptness of the word on a scale of 0 to 4.

The researchers were keen to distinguish between two effects that music can have on emotions. Firstly, they sought to measure the emotion that participants themselves felt as a result of listening to the pieces, known as “felt emotion”, asking the question, “How did you feel when listening to this musical stimulus?”.

Kawakami and her colleagues recognised that a sad piece of music, whilst recognisably melancholic, may not necessarily cause a person to feel the same way. To test this, they measured a second emotional effect – “perceived emotion” – by investigating the emotions that participants believed other people would feel in response to the music, asking, “How would normal people feel when listening to this musical stimulus?”.

Although the hypothesis that expertise in music would lead participants to appreciate sad music, as found previously (Kawakami et al, 2013a), this was not supported by the results of the experiment. A clear difference was observed, however, between the way in which participants judged the emotive quality of music and the extent to which they internalised such emotions.

Assessing this anomaly, Kawakami categorized the words used to describe the emotions conveyed in the pieces into four groups: tragic, heightened, romantic or blithe. The difference between participants’ view of the music according to these four types of emotion revealed some intriguing effects.

Music described in tragic terms led to participants recognizing the mood of the music. However, it did not affect them to the same extent. By contrast, romantic music tended to influence people’s “felt emotion” – that which they experienced – to a greater extent than they reported the “perceived emotion” to be.

Sad music (in a minor key) was found to be able to lead to more heightened emotions than the pieces written in a major key. Meanwhile, the degree to which participants reported blithe emotions depended upon the key of the music: major key pieces led to higher levels of “perceived emotion”, whilsts the opposite was true of minor key music, which was found to have a stronger impact on “felt emotion”.

The findings of the experiment suggest that ‘sad’ music can in fact provide a positive experience for the listener. Kawakami suggests numerous explanations for this effect, including that emotions we feel as a result of listening to music may be derived not from the mood of the piece but by the act of listening to music. She suggests that the patterns found in music (e.g. repeating sequences of notes, a regular rhythm, etc.) lead to a degree of predictability, and that our ability to foresee coming sounds – described as “sweet anticipation” – offers the listener an enjoyable experience:

“Listeners experience positive feelings when a future event is successfully predicted. If the sound that listeners have expected is heard, thereby confirming their expectations, then listeners experience positive emotions (“sweet anticipation”) as a result of this process. Even if listeners experience negative emotions when listening to sad music, sweet anticipation might still allow them to feel positive emotions”, Kawakami writes.

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Problem Solving

What techniques do we use to solve problems? A look at brainstorming, experimentation, introspection and simulation, with evaluations of each method.

Problem solving is part of a process that includes finding problems and forming and shaping them. It is a process that requires cognitive function and skills on a mental level. Problem solving happens when intelligence goes from one state of existence to another state of existence, that is desired.

There are at least six methods that are used to solve problems. Here are some important features of each one.

Introspection

Often times you may hear about someone turning within themselves. This is a definition of introspection. One examines one’s own thoughts and reports back to themselves how they feel. This is also called self-reflection.

Criticism

Many behaviorists reject this as a valid method for problem solving. They point out that it is impossible to be objective about any type of situation. [2] Cognitive theorists believe in the scientific method for problem solving but do not agree with introspection as a way to solve problems.

Simulation

Often times, problems can be solved by simulating the actual event. This is very helpful for training methods, too. For example, a pilot can fly a simulated air craft will all sorts of problems. If he makes a mistake in the simulator, he will not have to worry about the lives of hundreds of people, including himself. Many of these problems may be preventative in nature, but they can save many lives.
Some may believe that simulated conditions can be taken too far and there is no substitute for the real thing. In some cases, this may be true, but there are many practical purposes for simulated problem solving, today.

Behaviorism

Behaviorism is also referred to as a learning perspective. It teaches that all physical type of action is some kind of behavior. B.F. Skinner developed what is known as radical behaviorism. This form of behaviorism accepts introspective as a form of analysis. Though he does not accept it as a problem solving method, it is still regarded as a tool.
Although behaviorism relies upon conditioning to solve problems, it can be effective. For example, if your dog needs to be house trained, you can condition him to use the outdoors, instead of the floor. This will solve a messy problem.

Criticism of Behaviorism for Problem Solving

Behaviorism is somewhat limited on problem solving. Many emotional issues will not be solved this way. Yet, it has many possible training benefits.

Experiment

Experimentation is often used in the field of psychology. It is part of the scientific method [4]. It is part of problem solving that has been used for many years in one way or another. One does not have to be a scientist or clinical psychologist to use this method of problem solving.

For example, a woman may have a problem that her kids do not like her cooking. She may experiment with different recipes to find something that they like.
A lot of this is trial and error, but it has brought about a lot of great things. Many famous inventions would not be possible if not for experimentation.

The first step of an experiment is observation. After the observation, there is a problem or an unknown. After the unknown, there may be a hypothesis formed. The experiment may be conducted to test the hypothesis.
Often time, results of experiments can be inconclusive. This is why they may often have to be repeated.

Criticism of Experiments

Experiments can often be hit and miss. They may or may not be an effective problem solving technique.

Brainstorming

This is a common method that is used to solve many problems. It involves the use of more than one mind that is working on a single solution to a problem. This is the common reasoning behind think tanks.

Whenever a company or corporation holds a “meeting” they are taking advantage to this type of problem solving method.

Brainstorming Rules
1. It is very important to clearly define the problem, before the brainstorming technique starts. If the problem is multifaceted, it should be broken down into smaller parts to deal with.
2. A note on the background of the problem should be given to all of the participants. This should be done as far ahead as possible. It gives everyone time to think about it.
3. The group must be chosen carefully. One person should be there to take notes or write on a chalkboard.
4. The person in charge needs to make up an important list of questions. They all should have to do with one particular problem.

This is simply an overview of the brainstorming technique. However, it should give you an idea of how it is used. It is often used with a great deal of success, in some cases.

Criticism of Brainstorming

It cannot be done alone. It must be conducted in an environment that is conducive to creative thinking and not everyone will be successful.

Lateral Thinking

This term was first mentioned by Edward de Bono [6]. His approach is said to be creative and at the same time, indirect. He uses four tools in his approach.

1. Tools to generate random ideas. Pick an item in the room and think about it. It can be a noun or anything that you wish. Try to associate it with your problem and solution
2. Tools to broaden the spectrum of searching for new ideas. This may involve exaggeration or wishful thinking.
3. Challenge things and ask why. Look at something and ask why it is that way. It can be anything.
4. Tools of treatment. These are not creative, but take real world issues into account.

Evaluation of Problem Solving Methods
  • Problem solving includes finding and identifying problems. It requires mental faculties to move from one state to another.
  • Introspection involves taking stock of one’s self. It is also called self-examination.
  • Simulation is a great teaching tool for important jobs like pilots.
  • Behaviorism uses conditioning to solve certain issues.
  • Experimenting is how many famous inventions have been created.
  • Brainstorming and lateral thinking are not often considered but can be very effective. All of these methods have a place in modern problem solving an should be considered useful.

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Living in the Now Self Hypnosis MP3 Stephen Armstrong DHP; Faith Waude DHP Acc. Hyp.

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Enjoy living in the Now with this professionally-recorded hypnosis MP3 download from Hypnotic World.

In this day and age, living in the now is almost impossible. No sooner are you finished with one task, than you are moving on to the next.

Suddenly, you realize weeks have gone by since you last took time to count your blessings and appreciate all that life has given you. If this sounds like something you have been struggling with, than the use of this hypnosis MP3 download can help to slow your out-of-control personal time clock.

Perhaps you have heard the phrase “living in the moment.” Maybe it seems to make sense until you really stop to think about it. Do you believe you practice living in the now? Do you think it would do you some good to slow down and relax? If so then you are not alone.

The first step in climbing off the merry-go-round of life is to stop and focus.

This hypnosis MP3 recording will allow you the opportunity to stop, be still, and focus on the speed and numbness with which you were moving.

This can serve as a subtle wake-up call.

It is likely that your subconscious does not want to think three steps ahead. It needs time to relax and focus, and regain perspective. You will find when you satisfy this desire, your outlook and attitude will move in a positive direction.

The self-awareness that everyone has is becoming more and more rare, but is a valuable quality to develop on the path to living a happy life.

If you are more self-aware, you will take things less personally, you will understand why you feel the way you do about occurrences, and you will gain control of your emotions in a way that enables you to live more comfortably.

If you are constantly on the go, and things seem to never slow down, you will not have time to develop this self-awareness. It probably is not hard to imagine the regrets you may find yourself with one day if you do not take time to learn to live in the now.

You will be amazed at how dedicating yourself to living in the now will change your attitude and your outlook on life.

You will begin to notice physical and emotional changes, and you will develop a reverence for living that you may not have had before.

This hypnosis MP3 is a fantastic starting point for living in the now.

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What is stress?

Stress (roughly the opposite of relaxation) is a medical term for a wide range of strong external stimuli, both physiological and psychological, which can cause a physiological response called the general adaptation syndrome, first described in 1936 by Hans Selye in the journal Nature.

 

Selye was able to separate the physical effects of stress from other physical symptoms suffered by patients through his research. He observed that patients suffered physical effects not caused directly by their disease or by their medical condition.

 

Selye described the general adaptation syndrome as having three stages:

  • alarm reaction, where the body detects the external stimulus
  • adaptation, where the body engages defensive countermeasures against the stressor
  • exhaustion, where the body begins to run out of defenses

Stress includes distress, the result of negative events, and eustress, the result of positive events. Despite the type, stress is addictive. If your dog dies and you win the lottery, one does not cancel the other, both are stressful events.

 

Stress can directly and indirectly contribute to general or specific disorders of body and mind. Stress can have a major impact on the physical functioning of the human body. Such stress raises the level of adrenaline and corticosterone in the body, which in turn increases the heart-rate, respiration, blood-pressure and puts more physical stress on bodily organs. Long-term stress can be a contributing factor in heart disease, high blood pressure, stroke and other illnesses.

 

The Japanese phenomenon of karoshi, or death from overwork, is believed to be due to heart attack and stroke caused by high levels of stress.

 

Serenity is a disposition free from stress.

 

 

Folklore of stress

 

About the time of Selye’s work, the gradual realization dawned that age-old if sometimes ill-defined concepts such as worry, conflict, tiredness, frustration, distress, overwork, pre-menstrual tension, over-focusing, confusion, mourning and fear could all come together in a general broadening of the meaning of the term stress. The popular use of the term in modern folklore expanded rapidly, spawning an industry of self-help, personal counselling, and sometimes quackery.
The use of the term stress in serious recognized cases such as those of post-traumatic stress disorder and psychosomatic illness has scarcely helped clear analysis of the generalized ‘stress’ phenomenon. Nonetheless, some varieties of stress from negative life events, or distress, and from positive life events, or eustress, can clearly have a serious physical impact distinct from the troubles of what psychotherapists call “the worried well”.

 

Article adapted from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stress_%28medicine%29

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Stress: Fight or Flight Response

How the Fight-or-Flight response explains stress.

What is the fight or flight response?

The flight or fight response, also called the “acute stress response” was first described by Walter Cannon in the 1920s as a theory that animals react to threats with a general discharge of the sympathetic nervous system. The response was later recognized as the first stage of a general adaptation syndrome that regulates stress responses among vertebrates and other organisms.

The onset of a stress response is associated with specific physiological actions in the sympathetic nervous system, primarily caused by release of adrenaline and norepinephrine from the medulla of the adrenal glands. The release is triggered by acetylcholine released from preganglionic sympathetic nerves. These catecholamine hormones facilitate immediate physical reactions by triggering increases in heart rate and breathing, constricting blood vessels and tightening muscles. An abundance of catecholamines at neuroreceptor sites facilitates reliance on spontaneous or intuitive behaviors often related to combat or escape.

Normally, when a person is in a serene, unstimulated state, the “firing” of neurons in the locus ceruleus is minimal. A novel stimulus, once perceived, is relayed from the sensory cortex of the brain through the thalamus to the brain stem. That route of signaling increases the rate of noradrenergic activity in the locus ceruleus, and the person becomes alert and attentive to the environment.

If a stimulus is perceived as a threat, a more intense and prolonged discharge of the locus ceruleus activates the sympathetic division of the autonomic nervous system (Thase & Howland, 1995). The activation of the sympathetic nervous system leads to the release of norepinephrine from nerve endings acting on the heart, blood vessels, respiratory centers, and other sites. The ensuing physiological changes constitute a major part of the acute stress response. The other major player in the acute stress response is the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis.

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