Gratitude

A Blessing for a Day to Spend in Gratitude

BY PIERRE PRADERVAND

Such a great deal has been written about the power of gratitude it appears unnecessary to belabor this point: it is impossible – repeat, impossible – to hold at the same time the slightest negativity of any sort and authentic gratitude. Their coexistence is simply impossible and the choice is ours. We invite you to take a few slow, deep breaths when you arise in the morning and begin your day with this blessing…

 

May this day be a constant canticle of gratitude from now on till I retire tonight.

May I welcome any negative event with gratitude for the growth
it will produce in my life.

May I face every single encounter with gratitude for the manifestation
of divine love it represents.

May I react to any disgruntled, depressed, angry or sad face with gratitude
that my blessings can uplift and help dissolve them.

May I eat my meals with gratitude for all those who have participated
in bringing them on to my table.

However tedious, unimportant or boring my work may appear, may I perform it with the understanding that the very act of giving thanks can profoundly transform it.

And above all, may I understand that the choice between complaint, indifference, and gratitude is mine at every…moment of my life.

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What is Mental Health

What is mental health? We often talk about mental health and mental illness. But what do we mean by mental health and what can you do to look after yours? What do we mean by mental health? There is often a lot of confusion about what we mean when we talk about mental health. Many people immediately start thinking about mental health problems or mental illness – but this is only one part of the picture. Everyone has ‘mental health’ and this can be thought of in terms of: • How we feel about ourselves and the people around us. • Our ability to make and keep friends and relationships. • Our ability to learn from others and to develop emotionally. Being mentally healthy is also about having the strength to overcome the difficulties and challenges we can all face at times in our lives – to have confidence and selfesteem, to be able to take decisions and to believe in ourselves. Dealing with life’s ups and downs Having said that we all have mental health, it’s also important to understand when you might need to get some help or support with how you are feeling – or to know when perhaps you may be experiencing a more serious problem. It is quite normal to sometimes feel worried, anxious or upset when things don’t go as you hope – everyone faces pressure in their lives at certain times and these can include: • Exams. • Work and getting a job. • Growing up and becoming more independent from your family. • Making up (and breaking up) with friends. You can find more information to help if you are feeling stressed or under pressure from any of these on our website at http://www.rethink.org/youngpeople For further information on Rethink Mental Illness Phone 0300 5000 927 Email info@rethink.org http://www.rethink.org To find out about how you can look after your mental health, help someone who is experiencing mental health issues and read about some of the common mental health problems young people can experience visit our website at http://www.rethink.org/youngpeople Rethink Mental Illness is a partner in: Registered in England Number 1227970. Registered Charity Number 271028. Registered Office 89 Albert Embankment, London, SE1 7TP. Rethink Mental Illness is the operating name of National Schizophrenia Fellowship, a company limited by guarantee. © Rethink Mental Illness 2012. Knowing when to get help and advice Mental health problems affect many more young people than you probably realise: • National studies suggest that in the UK, about 1 in 10 (10%) of all young people may experience a mental health problem or disorder where they may need help from a mental health specialist. • These studies also emphasise that it’s important to get help early, that these conditions are treatable and that getting help early can help prevent difficulties getting more serious. • There are many different types of mental health problems and disorders and they affect young people differently and last for different lengths of time. What to look out for? If someone is experiencing worries, anxieties and difficult feelings to the extent that they are seriously interfering with their everyday life, for instance: • Being able to study and go to school. • Being able to eat or sleep as they normally do. • To go out with their friends or take part in their favourite hobby. and these feelings are becoming persistent, that is lasting for a few weeks or more, then it might be that they have a mental health problem or disorder and need to get some advice and help.

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Depression Information Sheet

What is depression? It is when the low feelings or down mood, along with other symptoms, lasts for more than a couple of weeks that a person may have depression (sometimes referred to as clinical depression). Depression is a lot more common than most people think. It can affect people of all ages and in many different ways. Some of the signs and symptoms include: • Feeling hopeless or worthless. • A loss of appetite. • Feeling very tired or on the other hand, agitated and unable to concentrate on anything. • Finding it hard to sleep, to study or to find pleasure in hobbies. • Avoiding friends or feeling like they want to harm themselves. Everyone has times when they feel stressed, upset or down – and it’s normal to feel disappointed when things don’t go as you hoped. These feelings will come and go from time to time and generally, don’t last very long. Depression can happen suddenly as a result of some difficult life experience, or can emerge more slowly, with no clear reason for it. Either way, it’s important to understand that depression is not a weakness, it is a recognised mental health issue and it is important that a person with depression gets help. For further information on Rethink Mental Illness Phone 0300 5000 927 Email info@rethink.org http://www.rethink.org For more info Visit our website at http://www.rethink.org/youngpeople If you want to talk to someone about anything that is worrying you childline offer a free helpline for young people which you can call on – 0800 1111 visit at http://www.childline.org.uk or

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Take the Mental Health Quizz

http://www.time-to-change.org.uk/mental-health-quiz

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About Stigma and Discrimination

About stigma and discrimination

It’s quite likely that one day you, one of your friends, colleagues or family members will experience a mental health problem. Yet mental illness is still surrounded by prejudice, ignorance and fear. The attitudes people have towards those of us with mental health problems mean it is harder for them to work, make friends and in short, live a normal life.

What effect does stigma have?

Making friends, holding down a job, keeping fit, staying healthy… these are all normal parts of life. But the stigma that surrounds mental illness makes all these things harder for people who have mental health problems.

Stigma isolates people. People often find it hard to tell others about a mental health problem they have, because they fear a negative reaction. And when they do speak up, the overwhelming majority say they are misunderstood by family members, shunned and ignored by friends, work colleagues and neighbours.

Stigma excludes people from day-to-day activities. Everyday activities like going shopping, going to the pub, going on holiday or joining a club are far harder for people with mental health problems. What’s more, about a quarter of people with a mental illness have been refused by insurance or finance companies, making it hard to travel, own property or run a business.

Stigma stops people getting and keeping jobs. People with mental health problems have the highest ‘want to work’ rate of any disability group – but have the lowest in-work rate. One third report having been dismissed or forced to resign from their job and 70% have been put off applying for jobs, fearing unfair treatment.

Stigma prevents people seeking help. We know that when people first experience a mental health problem they tend not to seek help early and tend to come into contact with mental health services only when a crisis has developed.

Stigma has a negative impact on physical health. We know that people with mental health problems tend to have poorer than average physical health and their physical health problems are often misdiagnosed. As a result, people with the most severe mental health problems die on average ten years younger.

How widespread is stigma?

Despite attitudes about sexuality, ethnicity and other similar issues improving, and despite someimprovements since the launch of Time to Change, discrimination against people with mental health problems is still widespread.

The Stigma Shout survey that we carried out at the beginning of Time to Change showed that almost nine out of ten people with mental health problems (87%) reported the negative impact of stigma and discrimination on their lives.

The research also showed that the way family, friends, neighbours and colleagues behave can have a big impact on the lives of people with mental health problems.

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How can I help?

You can help us create a society where mental health problems are not hidden in shame and secrecy. You can ensure your friend or relative is not afraid to speak out about their problems, or is left wondering where they can turn for help.

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