ORGANIZATIONS LINKS AND PHONE #’S

Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (DBSA)
www.dbsalliance.org
800-826-3632 FREE

Mental Health America (MHA)
www.mentalhealthamerica.net
800-969-6642 FREE

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) 
www.nami.org 
800-950-NAMI FREE (6264)

National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) 
www.nimh.nih.gov
866-615-NIMH FREE (6464)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
800-273-TALK FREE (8255)

The Jed Foundation
www.jedfoundation.org
212-647-7544

The National Council for Behavioral Health
www.thenationalcouncil.org
202-684-7457

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How happy Brains respond to Negative thinghs

You drop a glass while making breakfast. You get stuck in traffic on your way to work. Your boss yells at you for being late. Congratulations! You’re having a bad morning. It happens to everyone, at one time or another. But how we react to the bad things in life reveals a lot about our brains.

It might seem to go without saying, but people with sunnier dispositions are better able to regulate their emotions than people with gloomier personalities, who are more likely to be thrown by unpleasant events. Why is this?

There are several possibilities. One is that happier people wear metaphorical “rose-colored glasses” that allow them to focus on positive things and filter out negative ones. Another possibility is that happier people are just better at savoring the good things and allowing them to lift their mood, while still seeing the bad.

Why does this question matter? Because of its implications for the way you view your life. Is it better to ignore the negatives and setbacks altogether, or to strengthen your ability to zero in on the good without glossing over the bad?

One way to test these hypotheses is to look at activity in the amygdala—a small, almond-shaped brain region—in people with different emotional styles. For years, neuroscientists have thought of it as the primitive “fear center” of the brain, always on the lookout for potential threats. In some people, increased amygdala activity has been linked to depression and anxiety. However, less is known about how the amygdala responds to positive stimuli—and how this activity might relate to feeling positive emotions.

That’s what psychologists William Cunningham at the University of Toronto and Alexander Todorov of Princeton University are exploring with their colleagues. In a series of recent studies funded by the John Templeton Foundation (which also supports the work of the Greater Good Science Center), they’ve discovered a whole new amygdala—one that’s implicated in human connection, compassion, and happiness. According to their research to date, the happiest people don’t ignore threats. They just might be better at seeing the good.

What is the amygdala for?

A wild zebra must constantly be on the lookout for lions and other predators, even while it is in the process of pursuing a goal, such as looking for water or a mate. Scientists have traditionally tied this looking-out function to the amygdala. However, recent research suggests that the amygdala is also active when people are trying to meet so-called “appetitive goals,” like our zebra’s interest in drinking, eating, and mating.

Because threatening situations can have lethal consequences, it makes sense that the amygdala would be tuned to react to all fearful stimuli. But does the amygdala respond to all positive stimuli as well? Would our zebra’s amygdala activate every time it sees a watering hole, even though it’s a good thing, not a bad thing?

Cunningham and colleagues took on these questions in a study published last year in theJournal of Cognitive Neuroscience. They displayed a series of side-by-side images to study participants—15 people in total—while recording their amygdala activity using functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI). The pictures varied in their emotional content (positive, negative, or neutral) as well as the extremity of the emotion they evoked.

From the fMRI data, Cunningham and colleagues found that negative images did provoke amygdala activity, as expected. The positive images did as well—but only when the participants were explicitly told to focus on them.

Humans have a negativity bias, a tendency to focus on threats. But this research suggests that people may be able to compensate for it by consciously trying to focus more on the positive. As the authors put it in their paper, “while people do automatically attend to negative stimuli, given the proper ability and motivation, they can show the same sensitivity to positive stimuli.”

Another study by a team that included Cunningham and Todorov—to be published this year in the forthcoming book Positive nberoscience—found that the amygdala “may also be at the heart of compassion.” The researchers scanned participants’ brains as they viewed pictures of people who might be useful in pursuing a goal—or in need of help. The team found that amygdala activity spiked when participants perceived people in need. Not surprisingly, this was especially true for participants who scored high in empathy.

As the authors note, other research has linked the ability to connect with and help others to personal well-being. Taken together, these studies suggest that humans possess a subconscious “compassionate instinct”—an urge to help people that exists even in parts of the brain that are sometimes referred to as “primitive” or “reptilian.” The paper concludes:

This research project builds on the idea that our evolutionarily older brain systems are not solely a source of immorality and selfishness, but when tuned by our goals, can contribute to moral and just behavior. Thus, human flourishing does not come from the suppression of aspects of the self, but rather through the integration of all relevant processes together into a unified response.

Happy people take the good with the bad

But this research raises another question: Does human happiness depend on filtering out the negative things in life? Or in brain science terms: Do we want to avoid the stress of amygdala activation, even when it comes to perceiving people in distress? How do happy people respond to the dropped glass, traffic jams, threats from the boss—or even the sight of homeless people on the street?

That’s the question tackled in another study published in the journal Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, where Cunningham and Ph.D. student Tabitha Kirkland sought to determine whether the amygdalae of happier people respond differently to positive and negative stimuli when compared with less-happy people.

Cunningham and Kirkland recorded the amygdala activity of 42 participants as they viewed series of positive, negative, and neutral pictures. Participants also filled out surveys to determine their subjective happiness levels. Was there anything distinctive about the way happy people’s brains responded to the different types of photos?

Indeed, when compared with less-happy people, the researchers found that happier people had greater amygdala activation in response to positive photographs. But they did not have a decreased response to negative images, as would be predicted by the “rose-colored glasses” view of happiness.

In fact, the researchers found that “amygdala activation among happier participants was equally high for positive and negative stimuli.” According to the paper, this suggests that “happier people are not necessarily naïve or blind to negativity, but rather may respond adaptively to the world, recognizing both good and bad things in life.”

This is a particularly interesting finding because it suggests that being able to sense and respond to negative information may actually be an important component of happiness. The authors’ conclusion from this study: “Happy people are joyful, yet balanced.”

The upshot of this research is that our amygdala can no longer be viewed simply as the brain’s fear center. Instead, it seems that even at a very deep, instinctive level, we are wired to see people in need and help each other out—and that doing so might help us to be happy.

 

 

 

 

 

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free affirmations attract luck

Present Tense Affirmations
I am lucky
I attract good luck into my life
Others see me as a very lucky person
Positive things always happen to me
I always think positively
I am full of gratitude for all my good fortune
I am the luckiest person alive
I am a naturally lucky person
Good fortune always comes my way
I am thankful for the abundance in my life

 

Future Tense Affirmations
I am getting luckier
I am noticing that I feel lucky all the time
I am becoming a very lucky person
I will always think positively
I am transforming into someone who is always lucky
Each day I attract more good fortune into my life
Luck is starting to flow into my life
With each day I become more thankful for all the luck and good fortune in my life
I will always be lucky
Feeling lucky is becoming easier and more natural

 

Natural Affirmations
Attracting luck is easy for me
I just naturally feel lucky all the time
My sincere gratitude attracts more good luck
Positive things always seem to happen to me
New and exciting opportunities are always coming my way
Others are always telling me how lucky I am
Luck and good fortune are normal every day occurrences for me
I am effortlessly tuned into and focused on luck
I deserve to be lucky
Good things just always seem to come my way
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Free affirmations Law of Attraction

Present Tense Affirmations
The law of attractions works
My beliefs manifest my reality
I attract success into my life
I use positive thinking and beliefs to manifest a positive life
I have the power to create my reality
I attract into my life whatever I want
My thoughts create my reality
I believe in the law of attraction
I have the power to manifest my dreams
I believe deeply that I can achieve anything I desire

 

Future Tense Affirmations
The law of attraction is working
I will think positively
I am gaining control over my thought patterns
I am manifesting my destiny
Each day I believe in the law of attraction more and more
I will transform my life using the law of attraction
My powers of manifestation are growing
The law of attraction is transforming my life
Each day my mind becomes more positive
I am gaining control over my mind and my life

 

Natural Affirmations
I find it easy to control my thoughts
Manifesting seems effortless
Maintaining a positive state of mind is easy for me
I steer my life in positive directions with the power of positive thinking
Manifesting my dreams into reality is something I just do naturally
The law of attraction gives me the power to realize my dreams
Attracting success is a normal part of my life
My life is filled with abundance
My positive mindset attracts positive circumstances
I find it easy to attract into my life whatever I need
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Be ThankFul

Be Thankful
Be thankful that you don’t already have everything you desire,
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don’t know something
For it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times.
During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations
Because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge
Because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes
They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you’re tired and weary
Because it means you’ve made a difference.

It is easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are
also thankful for the setbacks.

GRATITUDE can turn a negative into a positive.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles
and they can become your blessings.

 

jmac @ http://www.mentalhealthsupportcommunity.com

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Free affirmations self sabotoge

Present Tense Affirmations
I am free from self sabotage
I always achieve my goals
My mind is aligned with my intentions
I always stay positive
I am capable of accomplishing anything
I am totally focused on succeeding
My whole being is in harmony with itself
I always overcome challenges
I am overcoming self sabotage
I am my greatest ally

 

Future Tense Affirmations
I will overcome self sabotage
I will be free from negative thinking
Every day I feel more in harmony with myself
I am becoming totally focused on achieving my goals
I am beginning to align my actions with my intentions
I am finding it easier to stay positive even when things get difficult
I am am becoming naturally driven and successful
I will always persist in reaching my goals
I am transforming into someone who is balanced in mind and body
I will go all out and achieve massive success

 

Natural Affirmations
I will easily stop self sabotage
Success comes naturally to me
I am naturally persistent
Staying focused on my goals is easy
My mind and body are in total harmony
Staying positive helps me reach my goals
My actions are naturally aligned with my intentions
It is important that I stay positive and believe in myself
I know I am capable of achieving anything I put my mind to
I only think positive thoughts about myself and my goals
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Free affirmations SELF BELIEF

Present Tense Affirmations
I always succeed
I am confident
I achieve massive success
I am capable of reaching any goal
I am ready for anything
I am always positive
My mind is completely focused on success
I am able to handle whatever life brings my way
I am a beautiful person
Others see me as confident and successful

 

Future Tense Affirmations
I will believe in myself
I will develop an unshakeable self belief
Each day I feel more powerful and capable
I am transforming into someone who can achieve anything
I will achieve whatever I set my mind to
I am starting to feel more and more confident in my abilities
I will always love, respect, and believe in myself unconditionally
Self belief is transforming me into a highly successful person
Others are beginning to notice my confident attitude
Developing self belief will help me to achieve my goals

 

Natural Affirmations
I believe in myself completely
Achieving success is normal for me
Self belief comes naturally to me
I believe that I can achieve anything I want
Others see me as a highly capable person
I am the kind of person who confidently goes after success
It is normal for me to feel great about myself
I find it easy to pursue my goals with confidence
I am a high achiever
I always find a way to succeed
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Free Self Esteem Affirmations

Present Tense Affirmations
I have high self esteem
I love and respect myself
I am a great person
I respect myself deeply
My thoughts and opinions are valuable
I am confident that I can achieve anything
I have something special to offer the world
Others like and respect me
I am a wonderful human being
I feel great about myself and my life

 

Future Tense Affirmations
I will succeed
I will always love and respect myself
My self esteem is growing
Each day I believe in myself more and more
My self image is starting to improve
I will always think positively about myself
I will achieve whatever I put my mind to
I am starting to feel more confident in myself
My Confidence, self esteem, and self belief are increasing with each day
I am transforming into someone who is happy and positive

 

Natural Affirmations
I am worthy of having high self esteem
I believe in myself
I deserve to feel good about myself
I know I can achieve anything
Having respect for myself helps others to like and respect me
Feeling good about myself is normal for me
Improving my self esteem is very important
Being confident in myself comes naturally to me
Liking and respecting myself is easy
Speaking my mind with confidence is something I just naturally do

JmaC @

http://www.mentalhealthsupportcommunity.com

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TIME

TIME:

I’ve tried so hard
I’ve come so far
And all I have is time
Time 2 wait
Time 2 date
Time 2 wait til I die
JmaC
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REACH

Give it up
Don’t try so hard
You know u can fly
Why afraid of the fall?
That’s where the magic lies
Beneath it all
Take it off
Show it off
Embrace it
The shows over
JmaC @
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